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#SiblingsToo - Exploring the impacts of sibling sexual abuse

ByNancy Morris
61 episodes

Podcast Summary

Welcome to SiblingsToo, the podcast about Sibling Sexual Abuse, the hidden taboo, hidden in society and in families. Your Host is Nancy Morris, a psychology researcher and sibling sexual abuse survivor, SiblingsToo creates a voice for sibling sexual abuse and brings research and information to surivors and their families.

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Ep.61 | TV's Most Taboo Topic – SSA in White Lotus, Hollyoaks, and Why It Matters

In this probing episode of the podcast, host Nancy Morris explores the challenges of representing sibling sexual abuse (SSA) in television programs, joined by experts and survivors Brinn Langdale, Diane Tarantini, and Tanith McCulloch. Against the backdrop of media representations like HBO's White Lotus and the UK's Hollyoaks, they navigate the multifaceted conversations surrounding SSA and highlight the urgency for responsible and informed storytelling. The episode critiques the portrayal of sibling sexual behavior in popular media, emphasizing the importance of accuracy, sensitivity, and comprehensive research in storytelling. Drawing on experiences with Hollyoaks and its reflective storytelling approach, the guests discuss how programs can shed light on the realities of SSA without resorting to sensationalism. Central themes include the societal need to recognize the prevalence of sibling sexual abuse and the vital role of resources and compassionate narratives in media. Engaging in this sensitive dialogue, they call for narratives that not only entertain but educate and provide pathways to healing and understanding for audiences worldwide. Guest bios: Brinn Langdale is a sibling sexual abuse survivor, a licensed therapist, writer, speaker, and host of the Wholistic Approach to Healing podcast. She's also the founder of Wholistic Approach, a transformational coaching program focused on healing the whole you. www.brinnlangdale.com Diane Tarantini is a sibling sexual abuse survivor based in Morgantown, West Virginia. She is an accomplished author, having written a children's book "The Brave Knight" and a memoir "Everyone Was Silent". Diane also works as a body safety educator, delivering crucial educational programs to public schools. Tanith McCulloch served as the Sibling Sexual Abuse Project Officer for SARSAS in the UK. In addition to her role as a counselor and supervisor, Tanith actively contributed to the sensitive portrayal of sibling sexual abuse in the ...

2025-04-17•59mins
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Ep.60 | Non-Abused, Non-Abuser Siblings - Call for Research Participants with Anais Vanvliet

In this illuminating episode of the podcast, hosted by Nancy Morris, Anais Vanvliet returns to discuss her groundbreaking research on the experiences of non-abused, non-abuser siblings within families affected by child sexual abuse. Anais shares her passion for highlighting the often-overlooked impacts on these siblings, driven by her personal and professional commitment to the subject matter. Nancy and Anais delve into the critical need for more focused research and policy changes to address the gaps in support systems. Diving deeper, Anais outlines her research's core questions, which explore both the experiences of these siblings and the current service provisions—or lack thereof—for them in Canada, particularly in Quebec and New Brunswick. She highlights the unique challenges and emotional impacts these siblings face, including feelings of isolation and jealousy, and the importance of trauma-informed approaches when engaging with them. Anais also touches on the broader conversation around sibling relationships in the context of family violence, emphasizing the need for comprehensive support systems and policy advocacy. About our guest, Anais Vanvliet: Anais Vanvliet is a PhD candidate in the School of Social Work at McGill University, focusing on the experiences and support needs of siblings in households where child sexual abuse (CSA) has occurred. Anais brings a unique perspective to her research with her lived experience as a sibling of survivors and her professional background as a trained social worker in sexual violence. Her work aims to enhance awareness, policy, and support systems for siblings affected by family violence in Canada. Key Takeaways: * The sibling dynamic in CSA-affected households is under-researched, leading to insufficient support for non-abused, non-abuser siblings. * Anais aims to fill this research gap by focusing on these siblings' experiences and potential support needs. * The impacts on these siblings can mirror those of the sur...

2025-01-09•44mins
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Ep.59 | Scoping Review – What do we know about SSA with Dr. Peter Yates and Amy Adams

Episode Summary: In this episode of the Podcast, host Nancy Morris talks with Dr. Peter Yates and Amy Adams about their scoping review on sibling sexual abuse (SSA), a critical step in consolidating fragmented research on this under-explored issue. By mapping the current knowledge base, their work identifies gaps in research, clarifies definitions, and lays the groundwork for improved understanding and future studies, making it an invaluable resource for addressing SSA more effectively. Dr. Yates and Amy Adams discuss the complexities of defining SSA, revealing 27 different definitions in the literature and stressing the importance of clear, consistent language to avoid stigma and misinterpretation. They also examine prevalence rates, with adult disclosures ranging from 1.6% to 7%, highlighting the urgent need for increased societal awareness and targeted research. The conversation underscores the limitations of existing studies and calls for more rigorous approaches to fully understand SSA’s onset, patterns, and long-term impacts. About the Guest(s): Dr. Peter Yates: Dr. Peter Yates is a lecturer in social work at Glasgow Caledonian University in Scotland. With a background in working in a specialist service assisting children and young people exhibiting harmful sexual behavior, Dr. Yates has dedicated his research to studying sibling sexual abuse, primarily focusing on cases involving boys abusing their siblings. Amy Adams: Amy Adams is a doctoral researcher at the University of Birmingham, centered on family and sibling dynamics. Her current research delves into the relationships between siblings where one child has caused harm and another has been harmed, providing insight into the complex dynamics within such families. Key Takeaways: Definition Complexity: The myriad definitions of sibling sexual abuse contribute to challenges in research and interventions, highlighting the need for a universal understanding to improve clarity and response. Prevalence Insigh...

2024-12-19•1hr 39mins
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Ep.58 | In The Telling We Do Not Die with Risa Shaw

In this compelling episode, host Nancy Morris dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Risa Shaw, a trailblazer in the study of sibling sexual abuse (SSA). The episode centers around Risa's influential book, *Not Child's Play: An Anthology on Brother-Sister Incest*, and the transformative power of speaking out against abuse. Together, they uncover the societal stigma that shrouds SSA, the importance of sharing survivor stories, and the ongoing impact of these narratives on reducing isolation and fostering healing. Risa recounts the painstaking journey behind creating her anthology, which spans from its initial concept in 2000 to its updated second edition. The conversation extends to highlight the benefits and challenges of disclosure, emphasizing that speaking up is a highly transformative act that offers profound personal healing. They also share poignant stories from the book, notably those of Marian and Dorothy, sisters who only found the courage to speak about their abuse in their later years, showing that it's never too late to break the silence. This episode is a beacon for anyone seeking understanding or grappling with the difficulties of SSA. About Risa: Dr. Risa Shaw is a survivor of brother-sister incest. In her new preface of the second edition of Not Child's Play, she reveals the power of 40 years of truth-telling to address the abuse, shame, self-blame, self-hatred, and damage done not only to her, but to every survivor of sibling incest. Risa has never shied away from the challenge of telling truth to power and she intentionally finds ways to center and amplify the voices of those silenced by oppression and violence. She is an educator, leader, and activist, living her life outloud for nearly 45 years in the Washington, D.C. area. Risa shares her life with her wife of 37 years and a large beloved community. With the first edition of Not Child's Play in 2000 and now the publication of a second edition with a new Preface, Foreword, and Afterword, Ri...

2024-10-03•52mins
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Ep.57 - What's Coming This Fall On The Podcast?

Nancy Morris is the host of the "SiblingsToo" podcast, dedicated to bringing awareness and reducing the stigma surrounding sibling sexual abuse (SSA). With a commitment to amplifying the voices of survivors, academics, and professionals, Nancy employs her platform to foster education, support, and meaningful conversations about the complex impacts of SSA on families and individuals. Episode Summary: In this captivating episode, Nancy delves into the upcoming projects and thematic shifts that will shape the podcast's future. The episode serves as an insightful guide on what listeners can expect as the conversation around sibling sexual abuse continues to evolve. Nancy underscores the introduction of Teagan McLaren's impactful song "Breaking the Silence" as the new audio and video anthem for the podcast, reinforcing the ongoing mission to break societal taboos. Entwining anecdotes from listeners and feedback from academics, Nancy shares her enthusiasm for the growing community of support and awareness surrounding SSA, emphasizing the critical role of storytelling in changing perceptions and aiding healing. Key Takeaways: • Reminder of Teagan McLaren's Song: The podcast will continue to feature "Breaking the Silence" by Teagan McLaren to encapsulate the podcast's mission and ethos. • New Messaging Initiatives: The podcast will introduce fresh messaging aimed at reducing societal and self-imposed stigma and giving voice to the voiceless across the family dynamic. • Upcoming Interviews: Future episodes will explore diverse perspectives, including international viewpoints and experiences from different family members affected by SSA. • Focus on Education: There's a significant push towards educating professionals, academics, and the public to bridge the knowledge gap regarding SSA. • Community Engagement: Listeners are encouraged to share their thoughts, stories, and suggestions to help shape the podcast and support those affected by SSA. Notable Quotes: • "Breaking th...

2024-09-19•14mins
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Ep.56 - The Next Phase of the #SiblingsToo Podcast

So much is going on! Here's a quick update about the SiblingsToo Podcast and the work going on behind the scenes.

2024-06-27•4mins
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Ep.55 - A Family Journey Toward Justice and Healing after Sibling Sexual Abuse Disclosure (Part 2)

In a deeply moving follow-up to Episode 54, Heather shares her experience of confronting sibling sexual abuse within her family. The shocking revelation by Heather's daughter, Brooke, and the subsequent turning point—with her son admitting guilt—paints a raw and honest portrait of a family navigating the darkest of times. In the wake of Brooke's disclosure and the admission of sibling sexual abuse by her brother, Heather and Brooke face the arduous task of giving their impact statements for court, forced to give words and voice to the profound emotional toll the abuse has inflicted. As we listen to their statements and this follow-up discussion, we delve into the critical moments from the day Brooke courageously spoke up, through the family's initial reactions, to the ongoing legal proceedings that ripple through their lives. Heather's unwavering support for her children, her advocacy for appropriate justice and rehabilitation for her son, and the perseverance to heal as a family are all laid bare in this candid discussion. Key Takeaways: * Brooke's impact statement reveals years of suffering due to sibling sexual abuse, including mental torment and confusion about her sexuality. * Heather struggles with dual advocacy, seeking justice for Brooke while ensuring her son receives adequate treatment and rehabilitation. * The family undergoes immense emotional turmoil, with both children experiencing psychological breakdowns and hospitalizations after disclosure. * Heather's faith plays an integral role, granting her the strength to support her family through their darkest period. * The family's experience underscores the necessity for better handling of sibling sexual abuse cases within the legal system and broader societal change. Notable Quotes: * "My innocence was ripped from me due to his poor self-control and decisions and it wasn't fair." - Brooke * "My son destroyed our family bond, broke our family apart and caused what has felt like a death of both of my chi...

2024-05-09•37mins
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Ep.54 - A Family Journey Toward Justice and Healing after Sibling Sexual Abuse Disclosure (Part 1)

In this profound episode of the podcast, we are introduced to Heather, John, and their daughter Brooke, a family united by the turmoil of sibling sexual abuse and united in their journey toward justice and healing. Heather and John, parents grappling with the revelations of their son's actions toward his sister, embody the resolve to advocate for both their children amid an undeniably complex emotional landscape. Brooke emerges as a beacon of courage and a voice for survivors, sharing her experience with clarity and a hope to inspire change. Episode Summary: The SiblingsToo podcast embarks on an emotionally charged dialogue as we delve into the critical issue of sibling sexual abuse and its ramifications on the family unit. This episode welcomes Heather, John, and Brooke, who bravely share their family's tumultuous journey after Brooke's disclosure of her older brother's sexual abuse towards her. Their story sheds light on the under-recognized epidemic of sibling sexual abuse and the journey towards justice and healing. Heather reveals the omnipresent danger technology poses in our children's lives, especially with the ease of accessing potentially harmful content like pornography. John shares his paternal struggle, anchored by his commitment to both his children, while Brooke illuminates her personal evolution, from survivor dealing with blame and shame to advocate for awareness and prevention. Together, they explore the complex intersection of familial dynamics, mental health, technology, and societal norms that often converge in cases of sibling sexual abuse. * The episode opens with Heather expressing concern for the overexposure of today's youth to content beyond their mental processing capacity. * The family discusses the influence of pornography on their son's behavior and the importance of open dialogues and preventative measures in family settings. * A powerful perspective shift occurs as Brooke underscores the necessity of reclaiming one's power as a su...

2024-05-02•45mins

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Ep.53 - Decca Aitkenhead - A Journalist's Journey of Reporting on SSA

In this powerful and thought-provoking episode of the podcast, Decca Aitkenhead and host Nancy Morris delve into the underreported and deeply complex issue of sibling sexual abuse (SSA). The conversation provides an insightful exploration into Decca's journey to write a major article for The Sunday Times in the UK, addressing a subject that often goes unnoticed by the public and media alike. With a commitment to shedding light on this taboo topic, Decca and Nancy discuss the obstacles and responsibilities that come with bringing such personal, intimate stories to a wider audience. The episode reveals the troubling silence surrounding SSA in mainstream media and highlights the urgency of informing parents, families and, importantly, society about SSA and how it can impact all of our lives. Decca shares the emotionally charged process of listening to survivors' experiences, the challenges in reporting on a subject with significant legal and social implications, and the overarching goal of sparking a national dialogue that can no longer be ignored. Insightful, raw, and unwaveringly honest, these show notes invite readers to fully grasp the magnitude of the problem and the need for immediate attention and action. About the Guest: Decca Aitkenhead is an award-winning journalist known for her role as the chief interviewer of The Sunday Times in the UK. With a career spanning three decades, Aitkenhead has become one of the leading names in journalism, interviewing a diverse range of prominent figures from the fields of politics, sport, culture, media, and the arts. Her expertise and dedication to uncovering compelling human stories have positioned her as a respected voice in the British media landscape. Key Takeaways: The 'ick factor' and legal complexities contribute to the collective media silence on SSA. Parents and families must be aware of the dynamics within their household to prevent and address abuse. Survivors of SSA carry the emotional burden of their experien...

2024-03-21•1hr 3mins
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Ep.52 - Adam, a perpetrator of sibling sexual abuse, shares his story (masked voice)

In an eye-opening episode of the podcast, host Nancy Morris engages in an intense and revealing conversation with two guests: therapist Brad Watts and Adam, someone who has acknowledged causing sexual harm to a sibling. The discussion delves into Adam's personal reflections on his actions, the family dynamics, and the resulting implications within the justice system. The episode presents a juxtaposed narrative of regret and healing, secrecy and disclosure, challenging societal perceptions of sibling sexual abuse. Initially, Adam recounts his childhood experiences, including how early exposure to pornography influenced his behavior. The conversation then progresses into Adam's acknowledgment of the harm caused to his sibling and the subsequent emotional and legal fallout. The episode also highlights the stigma associated with sibling sexual abuse and the varying paths of healing for both the harmed and the one causing harm. Therapist Brad Watts provides a professional lens, contextualizing Adam's experience within broader themes of treatment and recovery from sexual abuse. About the Guests: Adam admits to perpetrating sexual harm towards his sister. He is navigating both the therapeutic process and the juvenile justice system in the United States. Although specifics about his history and achievements are not disclosed to protect both his and his siblings' anonymity, Adam's participation in the podcast signifies his intention to contribute to the dialogue around sibling sexual abuse and his personal journey towards understanding and rehabilitation. His voice has also been altered. Brad Watts, a long-standing friend of the podcast, is a therapist specializing in sibling sexual abuse. He is an author, having penned the book "Sibling Sexual Abuse: A Guide to Confronting America's Silent Epidemic". He regularly conducts training throughout the United States to educate and inform others on this issue. Brad provides his expertise to the discussion with Adam, offering ins...

2024-03-14•55mins
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Ep.51 - The Making of 'Breaking the Silence' with Teagan McLaren

In this remarkable episode, we are joined by the brilliant Teagan McLaren who brings a profound sense of connection through her music. The conversation revolves around the liberation that comes from expressing ourselves and the encouragement Teagan's latest song provides to those who are navigating their own challenging experiences. The exchange highlights the transformative power of sharing our stories and the emotional resonance that music, like Teagan's, can deliver. From the rich conversations that led to the songwriting process to the meaningful interactions with fans, this episode dives into the making of Teagan's song "Breaking the Silence." Highlighting significant discussions around sibling sexual abuse (SSA) and the universal theme of overcoming trauma, the episode carries an inspiring message of hope and empowerment. Teagan's insights bring depth to the understanding of how music can be both a personal cathartic journey and a catalyst for broader societal awareness, encouraging us to voice our stories to enact change. Key Takeaways: - After meeting Teagan McLaren at a networking event in 2019, Nancy commissioned her to craft an uplifting song that would connect with and inspire listeners, especially those affected by sibling sexual abuse and other traumas. From that meeting came "Breaking the Silence" which captures personal narratives and the struggle to overcome silence. - Despite not having experienced sibling sexual abuse personally, Teagan drew from her own life traumas and empathic understanding to create a song that resonates. - The song's universal appeal lies in its ability to capture the essence of shared human experiences, encouraging listeners to break their silence and join a collective wave of awareness. - Teagan hopes the song will empower individuals to speak out, move forward from their past traumas, and realize that they are not alone in their experiences. In this episode: 0:00:00 Teagan wants people to feel connected and empowered by...

2024-02-22•42mins
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Ep.50 - SSA Prevention and How To Get There

Nancy Morris is the host and driving force behind the podcast and research project. With a dedicated focus on raising awareness about sibling sexual abuse (SSA), Nancy is not only a survivor but also an advocate and activist in this niche domain. Her work involves engaging with professionals, academics, and the society at large to advocate for factual discussions around SSA, aiming to dispel myths and bring about change in narratives concerning this sensitive topic. Episode Summary: In this compelling episode, Nancy doesn't hold back on what needs to happen next in the trajectory of sibling sexual abuse awareness and the practical steps forward in prevention efforts. She highlights the importance of societal discourse as a catalyst for change, much like the conversations which shaped public understanding of sexual abuse in other community segments like as the church and sports teams. Nancy discusses the pitfalls of misinformation and dramatization in media while championing a shift towards more responsible journalism regarding SSA. The episode underlines the vital role of advocacy in maintaining momentum in the conversation around sibling sexual abuse and educates on the important differences between SSA and other forms of sexual abuse, insisting that understanding these can aid in prevention. Key Takeaways: Sibling relationship significance - The crucial role of fostering healthy, lifelong sibling relationships from an early age as a potential preventative measure against SSA. Reducing recidivism misconceptions - Understanding that sibling perpetrators often do not repeat behavior outside the home or later in life can help tailor prevention and intervention strategies. Stigma and reporting - Minimizing societal stigma is key to encouraging open discussions and effective reporting of SSA instances. Parental influence and strategies - Parents must be equipped with strategies and resources to create safe spaces for difficult conversations and minimize potentially h...

2024-02-07•36mins
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Ep.49 - The Impacts of SSA on non-abused, non-abusive siblings with Anais Van Vliet

In this revealing episode of SiblingsToo, Nancy Morris shines a light on the impacts of sibling sexual abuse on others in the family. Joined by Anais Van Vliet, a driven PhD candidate, they dissect the complexities surrounding non-abused, non-abuser siblings in environments marred by such trauma. Anais, blending her personal history and academic prowess, explores how these siblings navigate the tumultuous aftermath of abuse. Anais reveals that siblings, while not direct victims or perpetrators, also endure profound psychological impacts from the abuse occurring within their family unit. With meticulous research on behalf of these often silent witnesses, Anais strives to advocate for more inclusive services that address their unique healing journeys. Their work emphasizes the critical nature of the sibling bond throughout life and its potential role in fostering early disclosure, supporting survivors, and facilitating healing. Join us for the entirety of this powerful episode to uncover more about the unseen struggles and necessities of non-abused, non-abuser siblings in the wake of sexual abuse within families. Stay tuned to for more compelling discussions that bring to light crucial aspects of sibling sexual abuse and its impact on family dynamics. Key Takeaways: Sibling sexual abuse has far-reaching impacts, not only on the direct victims and perpetrators but also on other siblings within the family unit. Non-abused, non-abuser siblings may experience similar psychological outcomes to direct survivors, including guilt, shame, and trauma responses. These siblings exhibit unique support needs that are currently underserved by existing family-focused interventions in the wake of sexual abuse. The sibling relationship can play a protective role in the context of abuse, as siblings may contribute to early disclosure, interruption of abuse, or ongoing emotional support. There is a pressing need for research and advocacy to address the gaps in services for non-abused,...

2024-01-25•53mins
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Ep.48 - Where The Stories Go – How we are using the anonymous stories shared with the #SiblingsToo Project

In this episode, Nancy Morris expresses her gratitude to the individuals who have contributed their stories to the story database. She emphasizes the importance of these stories in conducting research, informing policymakers, and reducing the stigma surrounding sibling sexual abuse. Nancy explains the process of compiling and analyzing the stories, highlighting the themes that emerge and the impact they have on professionals and society as a whole. She also discusses her ongoing collaborations and the upcoming book she is working on to share the realities of sibling sexual abuse with society. The Project collects anonymous stories from survivors, perpetrators, and other family members affected by sibling sexual abuse. The stories are used for research, informing policymakers, and reducing the stigma surrounding sibling sexual abuse. Narrative analysis is conducted to identify themes and provide a deeper understanding of the experiences of those affected by sibling sexual abuse. Sharing stories can be a healing process for individuals and contributes to the broader conversation about sibling sexual abuse. The Project aims to ensure that the topic of sibling sexual abuse remains in the public consciousness and leads to meaningful changes in policies and societal attitudes. Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2024-01-11•16mins
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Ep.47 - A New Resource for Social Workers with Dr. Sophie King-Hill

In this episode Nancy is joined by Dr. Sophie King-Hill to discuss her creation of a mapping tool that is used to aid thinking for professionals while they plan for what interventions will be necessary for the families they are working with. Dr. Sophie King-Hill is an academic in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham in the UK. Her research specialism encompasses sibling sexual abuse as well as sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people. Sophie also has an interest in policy implementation, transfer and success frameworks and evaluation strategies. In this episode: The voice that is missing from the SSA conversation A mapping tool for Practitioners that need support Getting a deeper look at many levels Future goals for the mapping tool Upcoming research A shift is coming Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2023-11-16•30mins
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Ep.46 - #SiblingsToo Update from Nancy

So, what's been happening since the last episode? And what's coming in the new season of the podcast. In this episode, Nancy reflects on the progress made since the International Awareness Day and discusses the increasing conversation and energy getting the word out about sibling sexual abuse. She emphasize the importance of driving awareness and educating parents, family members, and those who have caused harm. Nancy also mentions upcoming changes to the podcast, including new guests such as various academics, professionals and survivors of sibling sexual abuse. She plans to explore solutions and interventions for families enduring SSA and address the language issue that seems to be difficult for everyone to get comfortable with. The new season of the Podcast will be released in late October. Quotes: "The awareness day added energy into the conversation on an international basis." "Sibling sexual abuse is very different from other types of child sexual abuse...one of the key differences is the impact it has on the whole family." "The new season of The Siblings Two Podcast is going to be distributed on a more regular basis." "One of the subjects we're going to dive into is the whole conversation about what do we call this thing?"

2023-08-24•13mins
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Ep.45 - Disclosing Sibling Sexual Abuse as an Adult with John

In this episode Nancy is joined by John. John is in his fifties, lives in the United Kingdom and has recently reported incidents of sibling sexual abuse to the police where he lives. John is in the legal process so his voice and name has been altered to protect his anonymity. In this episode: Contacting the local police Off to a bad start but seeing progress The family dynamic growing up What happens if I speak out? The signs of abuse Having a safe space The next steps for John Have you registered for the Day event yet? What Every Parent Needs To Know About Sibling Sexual Abuse is on Saturday, 15 April 2023, across the globe www.SiblingsToo.com/events Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2023-04-06•52mins
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Ep.44 - The Wonder, a movie review

In today's episode, Nancy shares her views on the 2022 movie, The Wonder, starring Florence Pugh, Tom Burke, and Kila Lord Cassidy. Though very well acted, an apparently gratuitous backstory of sibling sexual abuse once again demonstrates a lack of understanding in media of what SSA really is and its true impacts. When advocates are trying to right the wrongs of misinformation and myths associated with SSA, this film certainly doesn't help that effort. Have you registered for the Day event yet? What Every Parent Needs To Know About Sibling Sexual Abuse is on Saturday, 15 April 2023, across the globe www.SiblingsToo.com/events Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2023-03-30•16mins
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Ep.43 - #SiblingsToo Day on 15 April

The plans and video recordings for the upcoming day on 15 April are coming together. In this episode, Nancy shares further details of the event, the speakers, and some of the information every parent needs to know about sibling sexual abuse. For more information and to register, just go to www.SiblingsToo.com/events Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2023-03-23•20mins
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Ep.42 - Handing The Shame Back with Gloria Masters

In this episode Nancy is joined by Gloria Masters, author and advocate for adults who have experienced child sexual abuse. She speaks from sixteen years of lived experience and has managed to turn the corner of healing into giving back. She does this through highlighting the issue of child sexual abuse to help other survivors. She has published her second book Flightpath to Healing – A Guide for CSA Survivors, and is also the Founder and CEO of Handing the Shame Back Foundation. In this episode: Gloria's childhood experience Commonalities among SSA survivors The Book: On Angels Wings, My Flight From Trauma to Grace Writing and releasing The Book: Flightpath to Healing, A Guide for Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) Survivors Do not compare Handing the shame back Advocating for others Connect with Gloria: Podcast: Instagram: Linkedin: Facebook: Twitter: Youtube: Foundation: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2023-02-27•50mins
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Ep.41 - Surviving SSA - A Husband's Perspective

In this episode Nancy is joined by Steve to give his perspective on what it is like to be the partner of a sibling sexual abuse survivor. Steve's partner is Jane Epstein. Jane is an SSA survivor, speaker, author, and advocate for the prevention of sibling and child-on-child sexual abuse and trauma. In this episode: Feeling disconnected Hearing the news that your wife was abused by her brother Working through the issues Riding the waves of emotions Growing as a partner and an individual Sometimes it can be a lot Having empathy Supporting a survivor Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-12-22•1hr 11mins
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Ep.40 - Building Resources and Support for Sibling Sexual Trauma with Brandy Black

In this episode Nancy is joined by Brandy Black. Brandy is the Founder of the siblingsexualtrauma.com website and one of the founding members of 5WAVES.org In this episode: The origin of the sibling sexual trauma website Searching for information and support Developing the website, becoming a resource and support for others Finding the right words Brandy's family journey The formation of 5WAVES Resources: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-12-01•1hr 0mins
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Ep.39 - The Connection Between Trauma and Chronic Pain with Maria Socolof

In this episode Nancy is joined by Maria Socolof. Maria is a chronic pain researcher, author and a sibling sexual trauma survivor. In this episode: The onset of Maria's pain Say "I let go..." Learning about trauma and pain Feeling the mind-body connection Remembering the past Validation and knowing your truth The words we use are important Resources: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-11-16•59mins

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Ep.38 - PEOPLE Magazine Is Onboard, But It’s Not Enough

In this episode Nancy comments on three PEOPLE Magazine articles related to Sibling Sexual Abuse that were published on Oct 19th 2022. In this episode: A brief overview of the articles featuring the stories of Jane Epstein, Brad Watts and Hope Sittler. Raising awareness of the facts and data No villains, but many heroes The impact on society An ask to share Resources: – www.siblingstoo.com to leave your anonymous story of SSA Jane Epstein, Sexually Abused by Her Brother as a Child, Is Voice for Other Survivors of Sibling Sexual Abuse - When a Sibling Sexually Abuses a Sibling: What to know - When a Child Sexually Abuses a Sibling: A Mother’s Story - 5WAVES – www.5waves.org Sibling Sexual Trauma resource site – www.siblingsexualtrauma.com Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo

2022-10-24•16mins
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Ep.37 - It Is Not Your Secret To Keep with Carole Brooks

In this episode Nancy is joined by Carole Brooks. Carole is a Sibling Sexual Abuse Specialist, Lived Experience Consultant, Advisory Board Member & CSA Spokesperson. In this episode: Survivor and advocate Opening Door documentary The importance of speaking out Carole's story Disconnecting from feelings and needing a sense of control Confrontations Taking legal action Getting well The life-changing turning point Living an authentic life What needs to happen next Resources: Opening Doors – Speaking Out About Sibling Sexual Abuse Getting It Right – the professional response to adult disclosures of childhood sexual abuse Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-09-26•1hr 7mins
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Ep.36 - Sibling Sexual Abuse, The Silent Epidemic with Jane Epstein

In this episode Nancy is joined by Jane Epstein. Jane Epstein is a speaker, author, and advocate for the prevention of sibling and child-on-child sexual abuse and trauma. 5WAVES is a collective voice promoting Worldwide Awareness, Voice, Education and Support around Sibling Sexual Trauma In this episode: Jane's TEDx experience Coming out of dark places Breaking the silence Jane's family dynamic So what do we do? The effects ripple throughout the family What is coming up next for Jane Jane's personal growth Jane's TEDx talk - Giving Voice to Sibling Sexual Abuse: Connect with Jane: Other Resources: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-08-29•40mins
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Ep.35 - A Conversation with Hope Sittler, A Parent coping with Sibling Sexual Trauma  (Part 2)

In this episode Nancy is joined by Hope Sittler. Hope Sittler is a Mom coping with Sibling Sexual Trauma and an advocate for parents of Sibling Sexual Trauma. She is also a Founding Member of 5WAVES. 5WAVES is a collective voice promoting Worldwide Awareness, Voice, Education and Support around Sibling Sexual Trauma In this episode: Part 1 (Episode 34) A mothers intuition Getting each family member the help they need Working with Child Protective Services Part 2 Feeling alone Finding support The voice is getting louder Connect with Hope: Other Resources: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-05-09•36mins
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Ep.34 - A Conversation with Hope Sittler, A Parent coping with Sibling Sexual Trauma  (Part 1)

In this episode Nancy is joined by Hope Sittler. Hope Sittler is a Mom coping with Sibling Sexual Trauma and an advocate for parents of Sibling Sexual Trauma. She is also a Founding Member of 5WAVES. 5WAVES is a collective voice promoting Worldwide Awareness, Voice, Education and Support around Sibling Sexual Trauma In this episode: Part 1 A mothers intuition Getting each family member the help they need Working with Child Protective Services Part 2 (Episode 35) Feeling alone Finding support The voice is getting louder Connect with Hope: Other Resources: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-05-09•39mins
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Ep.32 - How Sibling Sexual Abuse Impacts the Family with Peter Yates (Part 2 of 2)

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Peter Yates. Peter a qualified social worker with over ten years’ experience of child protection and holds a PhD from the University of Edinburgh. His ESRC-funded PhD research project looked at social worker decision making in cases involving sexual behaviour between siblings. His interest in this subject grew from four years’ work with Lighthouse, a specialist Barnardo’s service working with children who display harmful sexual behaviour. He has published several articles on the subject of victim crossover and risk assessment and on the subject of sibling sexual abuse. Peter is the co-author of Allardyce, S. and Yates, P. (2018) Working with children and young people who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour, Edinburgh, Dunedin Academic Press, which has been receiving some very positive reviews. Peter has presented at national and international conferences and seminars on the subject of children who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour and sibling sexual abuse. He had extensive experience of programme development, and his current role is Programme Lead for Social Work at Edinburgh Napier University. In this episode: Part 1: Peter's professional experience The difficulty of defining Sibling Sexual Abuse Harmful vs. Abusive Could the definition of harm belong to the victim? Engaging Social Services Understanding social workers The person, the behaviour Part 2: Prevention The grey area Frames that influence parents and social workers Connect with Peter: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-03-28•27mins
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Ep.31 - How Sibling Sexual Abuse Impacts the Family with Peter Yates (Part 1 of 2)

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Peter Yates. Peter a qualified social worker with over ten years’ experience of child protection and holds a PhD from the University of Edinburgh. His ESRC-funded PhD research project looked at social worker decision making in cases involving sexual behaviour between siblings. His interest in this subject grew from four years’ work with Lighthouse, a specialist Barnardo’s service working with children who display harmful sexual behaviour. He has published several articles on the subject of victim crossover and risk assessment and on the subject of sibling sexual abuse. Peter is the co-author of Allardyce, S. and Yates, P. (2018) Working with children and young people who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour, Edinburgh, Dunedin Academic Press, which has been receiving some very possitive reviews. He has presented at national and international conferences and seminars on the subject of children who have displayed harmful sexual behaviour and sibling sexual abuse. He had extensive experience of programme development, and his current role is Programme Lead for Social Work at Edinburgh Napier University. In this episode: Peter's professional experience The difficulty of defining Sibling Sexual Abuse Harmful vs. Abusive Could the definition of harm belong to the victim? Engaging Social Services Understanding social workers The person, the behaviour Connect with Peter: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-03-23•54mins
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Ep.30 - Breaking the Silence that is Keeping Sibling Sexual Abuse Quiet with Fleur Strong

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Fleur Strong. National Project Manager, RCEW National Project on Sibling Sexual Abuse. Fleur has experience working with children who have been sexually exploited and has also worked in a rape crisis centre. In this episode: It's a vast problem, and everyone is silent Why sibling sexual abuse is not acknowledged Front line professionals know there is a problem It's nuanced and multi-layered Networks are building It's not your shame to carry The power of the data Additional Information UK National Sibling Sexual Abuse Conference for Frontline Sectors 2022 Post-conference information pack Pack includes: Full recordings of all seven conference sessions – individually packaged and on YouTube Three *new* information/training films developed by our project (one for adult survivors, two for professionals) and now on YouTube Information and links on working with children harmed by sibling sexual abuse; children who have harmed their siblings; affected families; and, adult survivors of sibling sexual abuse Information on further training on sibling sexual abuse and Harmful Sexualised Behaviour Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-02-27•1hr 11mins
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Ep.29 - Sibling Sexual Abuse Offenders, Survivors and Their Families with Brad Watts

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Brad Watts. Brad is a Licensed Professional Counsellor and Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider, who primarily works with sex offenders, sexual abuse survivors and their families. In this episode: The silent epidemic Defining Sibling Sexual Abuse When sibling sexual abuse occurs and it is not addressed Long term impacts on the offender Silence exacerbates the trauma for all family members Myths of Sibling Sexual Abuse Why the lack of disclosure? What needs to happen in society? Connect with Brad: Get the book: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2022-02-17•45mins
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Ep.28 - Sibling Sexual Abuse – a discussion with Kami Cotler (Part 2 of 2)

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Kami Cotler. Kami is best known for playing Elizabeth Walton on the iconic TV series, "The Waltons". Kami is now an educator with over twenty years of experience working at different levels of the education system. In this episode: Part 1 (Ep.27) Kami’s path as an educator Differentiating sibling sexual abuse from natural curiosity Shame in the survivor and the perpetrator Feeling empowered and having a voice What role can schools play? Part 2 (Ep.28) What needs to change so teachers can have the tools they need? What if sibling sexual abuse “hit the media”? Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

2022-02-07•20mins
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Ep.27 - Sibling Sexual Abuse – a discussion with Kami Cotler (Part 1 of 2)

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Kami Cotler. Kami is best known for playing Elizabeth Walton on the iconic TV series, "The Waltons". Kami is now an educator with over twenty years of experience working at different levels of the education system. In this episode: Part 1 (Ep.27) Kami’s path as an educator Differentiating sibling sexual abuse from natural curiosity Shame in the survivor and the perpetrator Feeling empowered and having a voice What role can schools play? Part 2 (Ep.28) What needs to change so teachers can have the tools they need? What if sibling sexual abuse “hit the media”? Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story .

2022-02-07•39mins
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Ep.26 - A Family's Healing Journey with Brad Watts, Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider

On this episode, Nancy is joined by Brad Watts. Brad is a licensed professional counsellor, certified sex offender treatment provider at Hallmark Youthcare. Nancy and Brad have a great discussion about the journey of healing as a family and as individuals after abuse has been discovered. In this episode: The family's journey after the abuse has been discovered The process of healing - what therapy looks like Reacting to the discovery of abuse Conflicting stories, who to believe? The abuser has damage as well Helping to facilitate open discussions Re-building trust The importance of the family dynamic in moving forward Coping strategies What healing looks like for the parent(s) & family An abusers path of healing Why is sibling sexual abuse not talked about more? Normal curiosity or abuse? There is hope Connect with Brad: Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2020-06-11•50mins
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Ep.25 - Update and Covid Concern

On this episode Nancy shares an update regarding where she, and the podcast have been over the last few months. Nancy also shares some warning signs regarding sibling interactions and behaviour to be aware of during this time. Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2020-05-25•9mins
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Ep.24 - Keyboard Courage Is Crap

On this episode Nancy shares about an experience she had after leaving a comment on a post of a 'meme' regarding sexual abuse and the effect it has on survivors. Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-10-31•13mins
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Ep.23 - Chris' Normal Reaction To An Abnormal Situation

On this episode Nancy is joined by Chris. Chris is a survivor of sibling abuse behaviour and shares her story of how the behaviour has impacted her life, how healing is a work in progress and what the future looks like moving forward. In this episode The terminology surrounding sibling abuse behaviour and its impact Its not always good guy, bad guy like the movies The harm of her abuse A work in progress Injury is injury regardless of intent A normal response to an abnormal situation Where does the narrative around sibling sexual abuse need to go? * The name and voice of the guest has been altered to protect her identity and respect her privacy. Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-07-30•34mins
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Ep.22 - Buy Me A Coffee

On this episode Nancy has a quick update on the scheduling of the podcast as well as an easy way to support the podcast and the project. Nancy would also like to recognize and thank all the people who have shared their story on the website. Thank you for contributing, you are seen, heard and believed! Would you like to support the Podcast --> buymeacoffee.com/siblingstoo 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-06-27•8mins
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Ep.21 - What Parents Need To Know

On this episode Nancy talks about what parents need to know about sibling sexual abuse and some of the unfortunate facts that support the current statistics. This episode highlights the importance of being educated about sibling abuse and sibling sexual abuse. In this Episode: The definition of sibling sexual abuse Sibling abuse or violence 2.2 million children being abused by a sibling Frequency and type of abuse Long-term consequences Parents often normalize sibling abuse The risks of not reporting abuse A guide for parents 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-06-13•15mins
#41

Ep.20 - Looking Back and Looking Forward

On this episode Nancy looks back over the past couple of months to review what she has learned, expectations for the future as well as an invitation for listeners to join Nancy on the podcast for an interview. Survivors, perpetrators or family members who have experienced SSA play an important role in helping us to get the word out further and let others know that they are not alone. Other great potential guest would be professionals in the medical field, psychology, social services, criminal law and mental health fields that work with people who experience SSA. If you are a host, or know a host of a podcast that has a show that is complimentary to the subject matter discussed here, reach out to Nancy to discuss possible collaborations. 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-05-30•20mins
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Ep.19 - It's Time For My Story

The project exists because it is time for people to be able to share there story and bring light to sibling sexual abuse. On this episode it is time for Nancy to share her story. She shares what she recalls happened years ago, as well as how some of those events may have impacted her life. Nancy also shares what she has come to understand through her own work with her psychologist and what her hopes and aspirations are for the future for herself and the project. 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-05-16•31mins
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Ep.18 - Therapy and Mindfulness with Patricia Downing - Part 2

On this episode (Part 2 of 2) Nancy is joined by Patricia Downing - Integrative Psychotherapist. Nancy and Patricia discuss mindfulness and how it can be used to support individuals. Patricia Downing is a Integrative Psychotherapist and Mindful Practitioner who has worked with therapy clients since 2005 and is accredited by the British Association of Councillors and Psychotherapists. In 2012 she earned her certificate in Mindfulness based Cognitive Therapy. Patricias has experience working with a range of services that includes: primary care counselling student counselling trauma services sexual assault and abuse disordered eating 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-05-02•29mins
#44

Ep.17 - Therapy and Mindfulness with Patricia Downing - Part 1

On this episode (Part 1 of 2) Nancy is joined by Patricia Downing - Integrative Psychotherapist. Nancy and Patricia discuss therapies and how they can be supportive in exploring sibling sexual abuse and its impact on an individual or a family. Patricia Downing is a Integrative Psychotherapist and Mindful Practitioner who has worked with therapy clients since 2005 and is accredited by the British Association of Councillors and Psychotherapists. In 2012 she earned her certificate in Mindfulness based Cognitive Therapy. Patricias has experience working with a range of services that includes: primary care counselling student counselling trauma services sexual assault and abuse disordered eating 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-04-18•41mins
#45

Ep.16 - Q & A

On this episode Nancy answers some questions she has received regarding and sibling sexual abuse. If it is such a predominant issue, why don't we hear about it more? How can i begin the healing process? What can I do to help? 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-04-04•15mins
#46

Ep.15 - Call For Guests

On this episode Nancy talks about how there have been a number of people who have reached out to ask how they can support the project even though they have not been directly effected by sibling sexual abuse. A great way to support is to be a guest on the show or refer someone who you know who will tell their story and allow others to learn from their experiences. We would love to hear from you if you are a: survivor perpetrator member of a family where abuse has been present social worker psychologist professional researcher law enforcement member lawyer addictions councillor media representative 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-03-21•11mins
#47

Ep.14 - Are You A Survivor?

On this episode Nancy talks about the importance of the use of our words. The words we use and the story we share determine our life experience. The stories we create with our words are fundamental to our sense of identity which impacts our emotions and behaviours. 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-03-07•16mins
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Ep.13 - Shame

On this episode Nancy talks about the emotions, feelings and thoughts associated with shame that adult survivors of sibling sexual abuse feel and the factors that make those feeling worse. 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-02-22•16mins
#49

Ep.12 - Forgiveness Part 1

On this episode Nancy shares about what forgiveness is, what it is not, and some steps you can take to possibly get closer to forgiving those who have done harm or abused you. Forgiveness is not about giving someone a pass, or condoning the behaviour, it is about giving yourself freedom from the emotional pain. 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-02-07•11mins
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Ep.11 - A Family Affair

On this episode Nancy talks about the importance of how the behaviour of a family contributes to the occurrence of SSA and their response to SSA occurring contributes to the long-term impacts on both victim and perpetrator. There are many family factors that seem to impact the likelihood of SSA occurring. Understanding these factors within your own family may create opportunities for your intervention. 🖥 To connect with go to: Siblingstoo.com 📲 Facebook: fb.com/siblingstoo ➡️ Would you like to anonymously share your story of Sibling Sexual Abuse? Click Here ---> Share My Story

2019-01-24•12mins

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