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Phamily Standards

ByAmanda & James
54 episodes

Podcast Summary

Dive into "Phamily Standards," where a dynamic married couple invites you into their candid exploration of the OnlyFans universe and the intricacies of ethical non-monogamy (ENM). This podcast stands out for its unfiltered discussions about personal boundaries and the realities of the sex industry, making it a refreshing listen for those curious about modern relationships. Listeners can expect intriguing stories, including their adventures at the Vancouver Taboo Show, where they reflect on the thrills and challenges of their first meet-and-greet experience. The couple also delves into Mandi's upcoming month-long trip to LA, hinting at exciting new opportunities that are sure to intrigue fans. With a blend of humor, honesty, and insight, "Phamily Standards" opens the door to unconventional lifestyles, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in the evolving landscape of love and intimacy in today's world.

#1

Spending Time Apart

Mandi leaves to LA for a whole month for something super special that we can't discuss quite yet. This will be the longest we've ever spent apart from each other since being together. In preparation, we ended up filming so many new scenes that involved lots of roleplay which is quite new for us. We spend a lot of time this episode talking about morals and ethics and go deep about what that means to us.

2025-03-22•1hr 24mins
#2

Back From The Taboo Show

We survived our first meet and greet at the Vancouver Taboo Show and tell you all about it. Thank you to all the fans for coming to meet us and showing us so much love and support. We appreciate it so much. Things have not slowed down one bit as we returned home and we've been working non stop in preparation for something really big happening in the future.

2025-02-16•39mins
#3

Welcoming 2025

Happy new year! Hope everyone had great holidays. We feel like we've done a decent job this year with our holidays. Now that the new year is on the way, we've been preparing for our first meet and greet at the Vancouver Taboo Show. The giveaway for tickets is now live. We are getting really excited and looking forward to meeting everyone there!

2025-01-11•1hr 36mins
#4

Getting To Know Che Durena

On this episode we our joined by the amazing Che Durena. He's a stand up comic who has paved his way through the online world with his raunchy yet genuine sense of humor. He isn't afraid to talk about things in the taboo world which makes him a perfect guest on the pod. It's easy to share many laughs and hilarious stories when you have someone like him sitting next to you.

2024-12-10•1hr 56mins
#5

Big Announcements!

After the worst traveling experience we've ever had, we finally made it home from our big Texas trip. On a positive note, we got to see Eminem perform at the F1 race and left the collab house with some amazing spicy content. Now onto exciting future things. You guys have been asking us for sometime now... We are having our first official meet and greet at the Canadian Taboo Show in Vancouver early next year! We'll also be hosting giveaways for tickets as the date gets closer. You guys have also been asking us about merch and we have finally started the process of making that happen. And finally we have a special guest coming on next episode that is the first of it's kind for us. You won't want to miss it.

2024-11-16•2hr 1mins
#6

Our Mental Health

Lately we've been trying our best with keeping busy in ways that don't involve work. In this episode we talk about some of the new things we've been incorporating in our lives to make it more enjoyable. We also have a deep and real conversation about how our mental health has been as we reflect back on our life recently.

2024-10-11•2hr 15mins
#7

Getting To Know The Jelly Filled Girls

Say hello to the Jelly Filled Girls! They're a WLW married couple that have made waves throughout the industry representing the queer community in all its finest. We met each other for the first time earlier this year at XBIZ Miami and we all instantly knew it was friends at first sight. They may be faceless creators, but they are some of the most genuine, compassionate people we've ever met. Since authenticity means so much to all of us, it created such an amazing work dynamic where the three ladies really got to share a real, loving experience that they will never forget. Let's get into it!

2024-09-13•1hr 44mins
#8

Living Our Best Lives

With two music festivals and camping all in between, summer of 2024 will go down in history as the busiest summer we've ever had in the best way possible. We decided to not work and spend the time reconnecting with each other again. We reminisce on our adventures and amazing encounters we had this summer. For every fan that took their time to say hi and give us such wonderful gifts at Shambhala and Electric Love, we truly appreciate you so much.

2024-08-28•1hr 51mins

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#9

See You At Shambhala!

It's crunch time again at the Phamily household. We are off to the music festival Shambhala once again. There's always so much prep work when we leave, but we are so excited to let go and enjoy ourselves at one of the best places on earth. It's also been awhile since we've had a full episode of answering your questions, so we took two hours doing just that.

2024-07-18•2hr 18mins
#10

Unboxing Our Awards

We waited until this episode to unbox our XBIZ Awards trophies with you! Since our last episode, we've done some exciting things. Camping with our cat and spending pride with Jesse Switch in Toronto. We also tried some new things out in the bedroom and some creative twists on our spicy content. We finished this episode off by answering some of the e-mail write ins we've received from you guys.

2024-07-06•1hr 40mins
#11

We Won An XBIZ Award!

We brought home the win from XBIZ Miami and it's all thanks to you guys! Walking on that stage and accepting our award was so surreal. We met so many of our online friends and filmed some spicy things we had never done before. But there were also lots of unforeseen moments that hindered our experience as well. Here's the full recap of our first adult convention ever!

2024-06-12•1hr 30mins
#12

Getting To Know Woman Wanderlust

We've been hinting her appearance on the pod for the past couple episodes now and at last it's here. Woman Wanderlust finally joins us on the podcast. Straight away you can tell that she's a sweetheart, but don't let that first impression fool you. Her femdom goddess energy is why so many adore her. We reminisce on our amazingly hot scenes together and share all the funny things that happened along the way of this new friendship.

2024-05-23•1hr 28mins
#13

Testing Our Relationship

So much has happened during the filming of this episode. James got a vasectomy. Collaborating with Pink Cherry once again to promote "Masturbation May". Our collab with POV Master & Woman Wanderlust (which you will get to meet her next episode). With the little bit of downtime we have before we venture off to XBIZ Miami, we finally get to catch up with you guys and get deep about how working with other people separately for the first time went.

2024-05-08•1hr 40mins
#14

Getting To Know POV Master

We've been talking about this guest on the pod for a few episodes now, but it's sort of surreal that we finally made it happen. POV Master decided to make his way to Canada for the first time ever to work with us. He's been paving his path into the world of content creation working with many big names in the industry in just a couple years. Many scenes were filmed and lots of laughs were had. With numerous "firsts" experienced in this collab from all of us, it's no surprise that a new friendship was born.

2024-04-26•1hr 36mins
#15

Tough Conversations

We felt like we've been in a bit of a rut when it comes to our spicy time both professionally and personally. After having a deep conversation about it, we tried something new to get us back in the swing of things. And boy did it sure do the trick. So much that we filmed some hot scenes with our 360 camera. We finish the episode answering some of your anonymous questions you had for us.

2024-03-28•1hr 57mins
#16

Libido

We don't know how it happened, but we found so many of your guy's emails dated back to early 2023 that we've missed. A lot of you guys were willing to share deep, personal stories and we thank you all for your vulnerability. There was one common topic that kept coming up throughout these emails, and that was libido. We dig into it this episode.

2024-03-07•1hr 33mins
#17

Our Trip to Mexico

We're back from vacation! We went to Playa Del Carmen and had some of the most memorable times of our lives there. There's so much content from this trip that it's been a lot to get back into the swing of things. From becoming an affiliate with Insta360 to spending the best Valentines day at the Xcaret México Espectacular Show, get ready to hear about our entire experience on this episode.

2024-02-24•1hr 47mins
#18

Going On Vacation

When this episode drops, we'll be kicking our feet up in Mexico getting our tan on. So apologies now, but the next episode will be a bit delayed. We hope you enjoy this episode where we answer all of your questions and a bunch of emails that we've had stocked up.

2024-02-02•1hr 44mins
#19

How Do You Start?

With having our podcast being nominated for an AVN award this year, we've had lots of people reaching out wanting to work with us thinking we'd be there. it's giving us a bit of fomo, but it's making us think very hard about potential conventions to go to. We also recently filmed some crazy spicy stuff that we've never done before that we're so excited to release. At the end of this episode we dive deep into a question we get asked all the time, "How do you start the journey into OnlyFans?". Let's get into all of it.

2024-01-19•1hr 31mins
#20

Hello 2024

We kicked off the new years right - by doing absolutely nothing. We spent the holiday season mostly with just the two of us, and honestly, it was refreshing and amazing. We answer your questions and talk about our exciting travel plans and goals for 2024. This year is going to be our year and we can not wait.

2024-01-05•1hr 50mins
#21

We Missed You

As the title says, we missed you all. This has to be the longest hiatus we've taken from the podcast, but we couldn't help it. On the plus side that means we have so much to talk about. Amanda's tongue split, thirteen scenes filmed in Miami, and the cherry on top, finally getting partnered with Pink Cherry! So get ready as we wrap up the year with one of the longest episodes we've filmed as we dive deep into what we've been up to and also answer some of your long awaited emails.

2023-12-21•2hr 30mins
#22

Loving Work Again

Things have been feeling really good in the Phamily household as of late. TikToks, skits, photoshoots, explicit videos - we've been doing all the content. And it's paying off as we've been getting some amazing brand deals from awesome businesses. It was also the perfect timing to get our mojo back so that we can be prepared for our huge trip to Miami! We finish off the episode answering your questions from our Q&A from instagram and emails.

2023-11-24•1hr 53mins
#23

The Afterparty

From traveling to Toronto for a busy work trip to attending six different rave events, our month of October is finally over. Halloween weekend closed out one of the busiest months this year. And to top it off, we were some sort of sick for the majority of it. We finish the episode with a couple of emails sent in from our listeners asking for our opinion/advice/take on their situations. Let's talk about it.

2023-11-02•1hr 18mins

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#24

Happy Halloween ft. Zanastatia

If you guys didn't already know Halloween season is Amanda's favorite time of the year. It created such a boost in all aspects for content. We even filmed an amazing parody of the classic scream movie and talked all about the details. We were also joined by our good friend Zanastatia as we answered your questions and played 'Would you rather?" Many laughs were had in this Halloween special of the podcast.

2023-10-18•2hr 21mins
#25

Falling Into Place

Funny how some things just happen when you start treating yourself better. Life just gives you opportunities like it was fated. That's how we've been feeling as of late. Things have been feeling much better and what better way to get back into the swing of things then a trip to Toronto. And a trip to Miami. And a trip to Mexico. We've got so much in store it's almost too exciting. We finish off the episode with some questions and comments from our lovely fans.

2023-10-05•1hr 45mins
#26

Trying Different Things

Our mental health has been kicking our asses. Even with many good things happening like our six year anniversary, we've still been struggling keeping up with all the things that make up our lives. So we decided to take a small break, separately. Amanda went to a music festival by herself and James spent the time home catching up with old connections. We reflect on how our time went and finish off with a Q&A.

2023-09-21•2hr 24mins
#27

Hoodie's First Camping Trip

If you've been following us you'd know that we've been trying our best to get back into the swing of life lately. It doesn't help that where we live has been majorly affected by the forest fires here in British Columbia. We wanted to reconnect and escape for a bit so we took Hoodie out on her first camping trip, but little did we know that on the same day we had it booked, a forest fire started engulfing the area close by and forced us to have a change of plans. We finish the episode off with an extra spicy Q&A that you don't want to miss.

2023-08-30•1hr 48mins
#28

PART 2: Life As Of Late

Oh boy have we been all over the place. Cats got sick, Shambhala happened, and then our relationship was put through the wringer. Here's part two of how our life has been as of late. We've slowed down on work a bit to make time for us so we appreciate your guy's patience. Love you all.

2023-08-17•1hr 8mins
#29

PART 1: Life As Of Late

Oh boy have we been all over the place. Cats got sick, Shambhala happened, and then our relationship was put through the wringer. Here's part one of how our life has been as of late. We've slowed down on work a bit to make time for us so we appreciate your guy's patience. Love you all.

2023-08-11•1hr 8mins
#30

Getting To Know Zanastatia

It's been awhile since we had a collab and Zoe was the best way to get back into it. She has such a caring, warm, beautiful soul. It's hard not to fall in love with her when she cracks jokes in her soft spoken voice. She's the perfect balance of cute and badass. We were quite surprised with how well our chemistry was and it definitely translated into our scenes we filmed. You don't want to miss out on the After Dark Podcast where she pulls out her Kali Kage persona and dances for us. We followed that up with one of the most genuine scenes we filmed on the After-After Dark video. All can be seen on our spicy sites.

2023-07-11•2hr 25mins
#31

Pet Peeves

We all get annoyed at times hey? In this episode we discuss our long lists of pet peeves at some of our most frequent places - social media, the gym, and of course driving. We also asked you guys to send in your pet peeves and we were pretty surprised with how common and oddly specific some of them were. We end off this episode with a reintroduction to our lovely cats since y'all have been asking for it again. And if you didn't already know our surprise, well you definitely know now.

2023-07-05•1hr 57mins
#32

All The Content

Feel like we say this all the time, but damn have we been busy! And it shows because we hit some crazy milestones on our social media platforms just recently. On our spicy site, we asked what our fans wanted to see from us next. So we booked a beautiful condo and filmed as much as we could based on the content you suggested. Lots of things we've never done as a couple before and it was surprisingly so much fun. Who knew stairs had more than one purpose? We discuss it all in this episode!

2023-06-21•1hr 37mins
#33

Unhinged Q&A

We've been stock piling your questions that you had for us for a whole month. Amanda asked you guys to step up your question game, and as the title says, you guys were pretty unhinged. Questions range from basic, sexual, deep, to silly. Laughs were had. Tears were shed. We put it all on the line for you guys.

2023-06-07•2hr 36mins
#34

These Are Your Confessions

We just came back from a marvelous camping trip with our friends over May long weekend. Gave us an opportunity to decompress and relax, but we're back at it with another episode. We can't tell you just yet, but there are so many exciting things going on in the near future for us. We also asked you guys to tell us your anonymous deepest confessions this episode. It's basically how you'd expect anonymous confessions to go.

2023-05-24•1hr 17mins
#35

Life Update

With all the back to back collabs we had in April and filming all our podcasts with our guests, we had such a backlog of podcast episodes that we didn't even film a new one in over a month. Needless to say we felt out of practice. Lots has happened during that timeline. Changes in our relationship, seeking help with emotional stresses, cancelled trips/collabs. We are here to tell it all. This is also the first episode with our new intro so hope you enjoy!

2023-05-10•1hr 50mins
#36

Getting To Know Bailey Rising

In this episode we have the one and only Bailey Rising. She's a hot, spicy nerd who is infatuated with space and connection. She's basically a bonafide gypsy. After all her travels and two long years later, Mandi and Bailey finally reunite. They reminisce on how their first collab went and talk about how much they've both grown since their first time together. We chat about our date, how this collab went, and all the things that makes up who Bailey is.

2023-04-26•2hr 2mins
#37

Going On A Date

Life's been so busy guys. We just had Jesse Switch on the podcast and shorty after she left, we've been prepping for our next guest. Here's a life update with what's been going on in our lives. We spill the beans on who our next collab is and why she's so special. But we had to keep it short because we didn't want to be late for our date with her.

2023-04-19•1hr 21mins
#38

Getting To Know Jesse Switch

In this episode we have the wonderful Jesse Switch with us. Her life journey has been anything but glamorous. From a drug addict teen to a self made millionaire, Jesse has fought some of the biggest battles that life can throw at you. She is one of most interesting people we've met and probably the freakiest as well. We touch base on lots of interesting topics on life and society that we typically wouldn't have discussed on our own. Get ready for a super real episode.

2023-04-05•3hr 9mins
#39

Truth Or Drink

We asked you guys to think of the spiciest questions that would force us to drink for our game of truth or drink. After all these weeks of collecting your guy's questions we finally sat ourselves down on a Saturday night to play.

2023-03-22•2hr 44mins
#40

Getting To Know Carbasauruslex

First of all we had some technical difficulties with our recording of the original episode with all five of us. Super sad about it, but that just means that Kitty and Sage will have to be back on in the future.Lex stayed with us for an extra day so we got to know her a little better. Well a lot better. With the longest episode to date, we reflected on when we first met in Vegas, chatted about all the spicy content we filmed, and shared many personal stories about sex and life.Being the first guest to be on our actual podcast set we were able to film the first episode of the Phamily Standards Podcast After dark (available on our onlyfans). All we can say is that things got super heated and we got super naked. You don't want to miss that.

2023-03-09•2hr 32mins
#41

Self Pleasure

Masturbation. Let's talk about it. We both have different views on this topic and we discuss how we feel about it considering it's such a huge component to our work. We also talk about current 'changeroom etiquette' and how we feel there needs to be a change to changerooms. We recap our trip and how working with Reid was, talk about some of our upcoming collabs, and answer some of your questions.

2023-02-23•1hr 54mins
#42

Getting To Know Reid Rivers

After three months of discussion and planning, we finally got together with our online friend Reid Rivers. First thing to mention about Reid is that she's drop dead gorgeous. What's even more amazing than her looks is her fun, witty, bubbly personality. She isn't afraid to be herself, and she does it well. Lots of you have been asking for a guest on the pod, so here it is. We spill all the juicy details about how our collab went.

2023-02-09•1hr 28mins
#43

Would You Rather...

In this episode we play Would You Rather. It was surprisingly more difficult that we anticipated, but we had lots of fun answering all the questions. Get to know us a bit better as we answer some of the cute and even spicy questions. We finish of with a Q&A and we gotta say, some of the questions were even juicer than the game we played. Let's just say we were feeling quite unfiltered that day.

2023-01-27•1hr 46mins
#44

New Year, Same Goals

Happy New Years! It took some time to get the first episode of 2023 up and rollin, but better late than never. It's the debut of our new Phamily Standards neon signage and it couldn't look any better! We recap how our new years went, talk deep about life (kids, purpose, meaning of life), and answer a very common question we get asked often. Do we get jealous in the lifestyle we are in?

2023-01-14•1hr 33mins
#45

Being An Interracial Couple

Hey guys! Welcome to the last episode of 2022. Our apologies for missing the previous week. We took a couple weeks off of work as we were going through mental health struggles, but also needed to take our time to reconnect with each other over the holidays. With the week off from the podcast, we had a handful of things to talk about this episode. We unbox a gift we got for ourselves, talk about what being an interracial couple is like, describe "our type", having our videos go viral and girls hitting on us, and finish off with a Q&A from you guys. Hope you guys enjoy the longest episode we've done as of yet, and have a safe and happy new year. Catch you all in 2023.Much love,Phamily Standards ✌️💜

2022-12-30•1hr 43mins
#46

Teenage Dirtbags

In this episode we discuss how terrible of human beings we were during our younger years. we reflect on the times we've been bullied and the times we've been the bully. From school fights to court dates, we tell you it all.

2022-12-16•1hr 32mins
#47

Keeping It Real

Winter season is upon us and with that comes colder weather, shorter days, and lack of sun. The recipe for seasonal affective disorder. It hit both of us hard recently which caused lots of important discussions to be had. We open up about our current struggles with mental health. To lighten the mood for the rest of the pod, we share the funny, weird, and gross comments we get on all of our social media platforms.

2022-12-09•1hr 31mins
#48

How Well Do We Know Each Other?

We put our relationship to the test! Taking turns, we ask each other questions and write down our answers in hopes that they match. Questions start off basic and ramp up quick. We also answer some of your questions that you had for us. We go deeper into what polyamory means to us, and give some basic advice for people thinking they want to start sex work on OnlyFans.

2022-12-01•1hr 34mins
#49

Show & Tell

In this episode, we get real about drugs. We talk about our upbringing around drugs, what drugs we've tried, and how they've affected our lives. We also reveal our new podcast set. The background includes lots of items that represent different memories in our lives so we decided to do a show (listen) & tell. Get to know us better as we reminisce through some core memories from the Shambhala Music Festival to how James proposed to Amanda.

2022-11-24•1hr 36mins
#50

Lets Talk About Kinks!

Kinks can be defined as unconventional sexual preferences. We spend this episode talking about our own personal kinks and discuss the long list of peculiar things that we've been asked to do for work.

2022-11-18•1hr 4mins

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