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THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE

ByKate & Liam
35 episodes

Podcast Summary

Dive into the captivating world of "THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE," where hosts Kate and Liam—happily married bisexuals and self-proclaimed chronic overthinkers—explore the intricacies of non-monogamy with humor and candor. Each episode offers a fresh perspective on love, relationships, and sexuality, featuring enlightening conversations with renowned guests from diverse backgrounds. Tune in as they unpack relatable tales, like Kate's eye-opening experiences at a women's retreat and their wild content creation weekend in Florida. The podcast boldly tackles topics such as open relationships, jealousy, and the societal norms surrounding love and commitment. With its blend of personal anecdotes and expert insights, "THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE" invites listeners to challenge conventional views on romance and discover the beauty of connection in all its forms. Whether you’re curious about non-monogamy or simply seeking an engaging listen, this podcast promises to pique your interest and spark meaningful conversations.

#1

S4 Ep. 07: What Women Want

In this episode, Kate describes the sexy times that transpired at her women's retreat in April 2025.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOct 2025 Women's Retreat: Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2025-05-09•1hr 8mins
#2

S4 Ep. 06: Our ONLY FANS Experiment (Part 2)

In this episode, Kate & Liam tell the crazy story of their recent content creation weekend in Florida.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOct 2025 Women's Retreat: Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2025-03-20•1hr 5mins
#3

S4 Ep. 05: Sex & Personality

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss where they fit in two different personality typing frameworks -- the Enneagram and the Erotic Blueprint. Find out more about both of these at and Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.comWomen's Retreat: Other Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2025-02-14•1hr 9mins
#4

S4 Ep. 04: No Boys Allowed

In this episode, Kate talks about her night at a Women's Only Party.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.comWomen's Retreat: Other Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2025-01-02•56mins
#5

S4 Ep. 03: Summer Sex Party

In this episode, Kate & Liam finally get around to discussing their backyard get-together from the summer of 2024!To hear a separate discussion of the same event as seen through different eyes, check out Loq and Tryst's fascinating discussion on YouTube! all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.comWomen's Retreat: Other Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2024-12-05•1hr 5mins
#6

S4 Ep. 02: Sacred Sexuality

In this episode, part of Kate's occasional series called "Bad Ass Women of the Lifestyle," she interviews Lauren Hayes, non-monogamous relationship coach and host of the podcast "The Examined Lives of MormonWives," and her friend Bri, a former LDS church member. Together, Lauren and Bri founded the women's support group "Sacred Sluts" to help women break free from shame and reconnect with their sexuality. Find them at SwingingLifestyleCoach.com, and under the same name on Instagram & Facebook.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2024-11-13•1hr 1mins
#7

S4 Ep. 01: European Adventures (Summer 2024)

In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the highlights (and occasional lowlights) of their summer lifestyle travel adventures.Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2024-10-16•1hr 23mins
#8

S3 Ep. 09: The Bareback Episode

In this episode, Kate and Liam question what often seems like the ultimate swinger taboo. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2024-07-25•50mins

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#9

S3 Ep. 08: Asking For What You Want

In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired -- in the Lifestyle.Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.comTravel with Us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel OptionsCasual Swinger -- Gym -- -- 77 -- the show

2024-04-30•53mins
#10

S3 Ep 07: Sex & Drugs

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives.Travel with us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- 77 -- -- Gym -- the show

2024-03-22•1hr 23mins
#11

S3 Ep. 06: Every Body's Welcome

Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle.LinksCara's Website Women's Retreat webpage Kate's Links Monogamish Marriage Blog the show

2024-02-20•43mins
#12

S3 Ep. 05: Orgies

In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard.Show LinksEmail us: The [email protected] us: www.patreon.com/Kate_and_LiamTravel with us: www.SapioTours.comOther Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- 77 -- -- Gym -- the show

2024-01-29•1hr 10mins
#13

S3 Ep. 04: Self-Compassion -- Inner Parts Work with Relationship Coach Catherine

Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring.Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retreat this April. Go to www.sapiotours.com for more information.Resources MentionedExpansive Connection CoachingCatherine's Adult Chair WebinarNo More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller The Adult Chair: A guide to Loving Yourself by Michelle Chalfant Book: The Adult Chair PodcastLife Without Ed by Jenni Schaefer Getting the Love You Want by Harvel Hendrix PCAP (Podcast-a-Palooza) Naughty Gym’s Be Better at Being Bad week at Hedonism Support the show

2023-12-19•1hr 5mins
#14

S3 Ep. 03: Online Dating (Part 2)

Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!). Kate dishes about her sexy -- and not so sexy -- dates with both men and women, including one that goes very wrong (trigger: SA). Liam reports back on the dates with women he met on two additional dating sites, and lets us know how all his hard-won freedom and confidence paid off at PCAP Miami last month.Events mentioned in this show:Libertine events (PCAP)Naughty GymSupport the show

2023-11-13•1hr 17mins
#15

S3 Ep. 02: Online Dating (Part 1)

In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings. Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications.Links:Sapio ToursSmall Group European travel for non-monogamous couples hosted by Kate & Liam: EventsCarnival Miami and Soiree Montreal Gym Adventure TravelBe Better @ Being Bad Week at Hedonism II the show

2023-10-10•1hr 10mins
#16

S3 Ep. 01: Lifestyle Travel Stories

Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023. Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at you're interested in any of the other excellent trips mentioned, please see the following websites for further details... Naughty Gym Adventure Travel... 77 Events... Swingers... Events/Podcast-A-Palooza... the show

2023-09-07•55mins
#17

S2 Ep. 08: Boundaries - The Multiamory Interview

In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,, the show

2023-07-28•50mins
#18

S2 Ep. 07: Fantasies

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami. have Kate & Liam shared so explicitly about their practices between the sheets as they do here!Support the show

2023-05-11•59mins
#19

S2 Ep. 06: Betrayal

This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman. A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree. Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual understanding. OPEN DEEPLY Podcast (on Spotify) DEEPLY Book (on Amazon) the show

2023-04-05•1hr 2mins
#20

S2 Ep. 05: Coming Out To Our Families

In this episode, Kate & Liam explore a paradox: why do non-monogamous people go to such extreme lengths to keep their lifestyle a secret when it enriches their lives so much? Support the show

2023-03-02•58mins
#21

S2 Ep. 04: Erections

In this episode, Liam tells the story of his erection struggles in group sex situations, and how he eventually conquered them. Let's just say that Kate is deeply worried.Important Links:Support us on Patreon... Gym Adventure Travel... 77 Events... Portland... Tours (Crete June 9-16, 2023)... the show

2023-01-20•1hr 14mins
#22

S2 Ep. 03: Our ONLY FANS Experiment

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss in their usual frank way the ups and downs of their experience as Only Fans creators.IMPORTANT LINKS Kate's Only Fans Only Fans Kate & Liam's New Travel Group other excellent Only Fans accounts mentioned in this episode:Andi's Only Fans Only Fans fans.com/yesfunmeMr DD's Only Fans the show

2022-12-09•1hr 6mins
#23

S2 Ep. 02: Rachel Krantz Interview

Kate interviews Rachel Krantz, journalist and author of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy. They discuss the gaslighting, coercion, and jealousy Rachel experienced in her first open relationship, and some of the uncomfortable parallels Kate noticed between Rachel’s story and her own. Get Rachel’s book Open wherever you buy books, and check out her podcast ‘Help Existing’ wherever you listen to podcasts. LINKSSupport us on Patreon: Krantz’s Instagram: ‘Help Existing’ Podcast: trip video: SOCIAL MEDIAJoint Accounts: Accounts: Accounts: the show

2022-11-03•50mins

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#24

S2 Ep. 01: Group Vs. Solo Play

In this episode, the first of the second season, Kate & Liam recount their adventures since the end of Season One. In doing so, they notice a pattern: while Liam enjoys solo play, Kate is at her best in group situations. These differences lead to moments of both great pleasure and extreme discomfort, which they explore in the typically 'no holds barred' Monogamish Marriage style.Links:Dragonfly Lee Gym Adventure Travel 77 Travel Events the show

2022-09-23•1hr 12mins
#25

S1 Ep. 11: Lifestyle Vacations

This episode starts with face-off between Hedonism in Jamaica and Desire in Mexico, before discussing other possibilities for getting away with like-minded people. To join us at Podcast-A-Palooza in Palm Springs in June 2022, click here.To join us at Room 77's Summer Bang in Antigua, click here.Several other excellent podcasts are referenced in this episode, including : The Black N Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast Souls Swingers - Hotwife Swinger Podcast the show

2022-05-23•1hr 3mins
#26

S1 Ep. 10: Dating Separately (Part 3)

Kate & Liam find their way to a shared understanding after weeks of stress over Liam's desire to date separately.Support the show

2022-04-15•57mins
#27

S1 Ep. 9: Dating Separately (Part 2)

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss his date with Kaitlyn, and dealing with the aftershocks.Links:Polysecure by Jessica Fern in Non-Monogamy the show

2022-03-15•1hr 9mins
#28

S1 Ep. 8: Dating Separately (Part 1)

Liam and Kate work through some challenging emotions in advance of Liam's first solo date with another woman. Support the show

2022-03-08•1hr 10mins
#29

S1 Ep. 7: Body Image

In this special episode, Kate talks one-on-one with her girlfriend April about their lifelong struggles with self-acceptance. LinksNaughty Gym's Montana Adventure - May 7-11, 2022 Swinger's Podcast-A-Palooza Palm Springs - June 3-6, 2022 77's Summer Bang in Antigua - July 29-August 5, 2022 the show

2022-01-20•47mins
#30

S1 Ep. 6: Jealousy

Is jealousy the biggest source of conflict in the lifestyle, or is it somehow a gift? Or both? In this episode of The Monogamish Marriage podcast, Kate & Liam cover all the angles and reach some unexpected conclusions.Join them for 3 days at PODCAST-A-PALOOZA 2022 in Palm Springs (June 3-6) for 7 days at SUMMER BANG 2022 in Antigua (July 29-August 5) (enter the code MONOGAMISH to receive a free gift when you book)Support the show

2021-12-26•54mins
#31

S1 Ep. 5: Pornography

All those pictures and videos we put online -- are they pornography? Does it matter if the answer is yes?Check out our blog at www.TheMonogamishMarriage.comJoin us at Podcast-A-Palooza Palm Springs, June 3-6, 2022: us at Room 77's Antigua Hotel Takeover, July 29 - August 5, 2022: the show

2021-11-26•58mins
#32

S1 Ep. 4: Threesomes

In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their early threesomes with her ex-boyfriend Derek. What could go wrong?Articles discussed in this show:Our First MFM Threesome: Part One First MFM Threesome: Part Two MFM Experiment: Getting It Right Greatest Threesome in the History of the World Guaranteed Erection the show

2021-11-04•44mins
#33

S1 Ep. 3: Bisexuality

In this episode, both Kate & Liam share stories and insights from their individual bisexual journeys. Nothing is held back -- but then again, you knew that!To join them at Podcast-a-Palooza Encore in Dallas, click here: read any of the articles referred to in the podcast, click on the appropriate link below:: No Pain, No Gain: Pushing Boundaries Wife Wants a Girlfriend Feelings: My Wife Finds a Girlfriend Bisexuality: An Experiment Lifestyle has a BI(G) Problem the show

2021-10-19•57mins
#34

S1 Ep. 2: Hotwifing

In this episode, Liam & Kate discuss the subject of separate room play and Hotwifing, the practice of a woman dating other men with the enthusiastic support of her husband. This is not just a matter of casual interest to them, but an activity they have enjoyed personally. Below are links to individuals and articles mentioned in this podcast:Polyamory, Hotwifing, Open Relationships, and Everything in Between Diaries -- A Spontaneous Hotwife Experience Diaries -- The RoboCock Sapphic Swingers Casual Swinger the show

2021-09-29•51mins
#35

S1 Ep. 1 Origins

In this, the first episode of The Monogamish Marriage Podcast, Kate & Liam tell the story of how they met, why they decided to be non-monogamous, and why they're starting a podcast.You can interact with them in a number of different ways:Blog -- www.TheMonogamishMarriage.comPatreon -- www.Patreon.com/TheMonogamishMarriage Twitter -- www.Twitter.com/Monogamish1Instagram -- -- www.Medium.com/@themonogamishmarriage & www.Medium.com/@lmacadamSupport the show

2021-09-08•47mins

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