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Best Modern Love Episodes

ByThe New York Times
402 episodes

For 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday. Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp

#1

Friends for 16 Years. Lovers for One Night.

This episode beautifully explores the transition from friendship to romance, capturing the complexities of relationships that evolve over time. It's a relatable story for anyone who's ever found love in unexpected places.

2025-05-21•39m
#2

Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Relationship Therapist Terry Real

Terry Real dives deep into the emotional struggles faced by men in today's society. This thought-provoking episode offers valuable insights into relationships and vulnerability that resonate with listeners of all backgrounds.

2025-05-14•37m
#3

Gen X? More Like Gen Sex.

Mireille Silcoff's candid exploration of sexuality among Gen X women challenges stereotypes and celebrates empowerment. This episode is both humorous and enlightening, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in modern love narratives.

2025-04-16•37m

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#4

A Mother’s Fierce, Extravagant Love (Encore)

This touching story about a mother's love and the lengths she goes to for her daughter offers a unique perspective on family bonds and loss. It's a heartfelt reminder of the enduring power of love.

2025-05-07•22m
#5

Miranda July Knew Exactly What She Was Doing

In this episode, Miranda July discusses her novel and the profound themes of self-discovery and desire. Her insights make this a captivating listen for fans of literature and love stories alike.

2025-04-30•36m
#6

You’re Probably Thinking About Boundaries All Wrong

KC Davis offers practical advice on healthy boundaries in relationships, a topic that is increasingly relevant in our interconnected world. This episode is filled with useful insights and relatable anecdotes.

2025-04-23•39m
#7

First Love Mixtape: Side A (Encore)

This episode combines nostalgia with personal storytelling as it reflects on how music shapes our understanding of love. It's a delightful exploration for anyone who has ever had a song that defined a relationship.

2025-05-28•21m
#8

Subscriber Exclusive: This Week’s Modern Love Essay

A compelling essay about the complexities of relationships, this episode provides a unique lens on love and heartbreak that is sure to resonate with new listeners.

2025-05-30•10m
#9

Subscriber Exclusive: This Week’s Modern Love Essay

This episode features an essay exploring the challenges of love and the difficult decisions that come with it. Its relatable themes make it a great entry point into the podcast.

2025-05-23•10m
#10

First Love Mixtape: Side B (Encore)

Listeners share their own stories about songs that have shaped their views on love, creating a rich tapestry of experiences. This interactive episode invites audience participation and connection.

2025-06-04•22m