Girl on Girl

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Between the Lines: Queer Survival & Poetry with Rebecca Salazar

In this week’s episode, I sit down with the brilliant Rebecca Salazar—queer poet, editor, and author of the powerful poetry collection Antibody. We talk about writing through queerness, survival, and the radical act of speaking truth through poetry. Rebecca opens up about the emotional landscapes that shaped Antibody, how they navigate vulnerability as both a writer and a person, and why queer voices matter—especially in poetry.Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions of trauma, SA, and other sensitive topics. Please take care while listening.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-28•1hr 0mins

Between the Lines: Queer Survival & Poetry with Rebecca Salazar

In this week’s episode, I sit down with the brilliant Rebecca Salazar—queer poet, editor, and author of the powerful poetry collection Antibody. We talk about writing through queerness, survival, and the radical act of speaking truth through poetry. Rebecca opens up about the emotional landscapes that shaped Antibody, how they navigate vulnerability as both a writer and a person, and why queer voices matter—especially in poetry.Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions of trauma, SA, and other sensitive topics. Please take care while listening.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-28•1hr 0mins

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Queer, Nigerian, and Sculpting Her Own Life: Meet Artist Sade Cole

Meet Sade Cole — a queer Nigerian artist, former celebrity stylist, and now a full-time sculptor based in California. From styling icons like Ciara and Wizkid to creating minimalist 3D sculptures that explore identity and heritage, Sade’s journey is nothing short of inspiring.We talk about what it means to be queer and Nigerian, how she’s navigated visibility and vulnerability across cultures, and the path she’s taken to sculpt a life that truly reflects who she is. From fashion to tech to venture capital — and back to art — Sade shares how she’s carved out space for herself in every industry she’s entered.Thank you so much to Sade for joining the GXG conversation!Follow Sade below and check out her website: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-14•41mins

Queer, Nigerian, and Sculpting Her Own Life: Meet Artist Sade Cole

Meet Sade Cole — a queer Nigerian artist, former celebrity stylist, and now a full-time sculptor based in California. From styling icons like Ciara and Wizkid to creating minimalist 3D sculptures that explore identity and heritage, Sade’s journey is nothing short of inspiring.We talk about what it means to be queer and Nigerian, how she’s navigated visibility and vulnerability across cultures, and the path she’s taken to sculpt a life that truly reflects who she is. From fashion to tech to venture capital — and back to art — Sade shares how she’s carved out space for herself in every industry she’s entered.Thank you so much to Sade for joining the GXG conversation!Follow Sade below and check out her website: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-14•41mins

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Rivkah Reyes: Queer Artist on Creative Evolution, Healing & New Music

WELCOME Rivkah Reyes! I sat down with Riv— queer nonbinary actor, musician, and absolute badass. We talked about everything from School of Rock nostalgia to their queer identity, sobriety, mental health, and creative evolution 🎸💫Plus, we get the scoop on their upcoming single Big League Chew dropping 5/12. Make sure to stream Riv's music on all available streaming platforms.Follow Rivkah below: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-08•47mins

Rivkah Reyes: Queer Artist on Creative Evolution, Healing & New Music

WELCOME Rivkah Reyes! I sat down with Riv— queer nonbinary actor, musician, and absolute badass. We talked about everything from School of Rock nostalgia to their queer identity, sobriety, mental health, and creative evolution 🎸💫Plus, we get the scoop on their upcoming single Big League Chew dropping 5/12. Make sure to stream Riv's music on all available streaming platforms.Follow Rivkah below: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-08•47mins

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How To Have The Most Transformative Year of Your Life

How we feeling friends?! On this episode, I break down 22 ways we can all have a transformative year that can create lasting change. If you’re ready to pivot out of old patterns and step into alignment, I think you'll like this one!Inspired by Brianna Wiest’s The Pivot Year, this episode is a guide to self-reflection, acceptance, and growth. Change isn't something to fear—it's something to own. Let's make this your most transformative year yet. We're in it together!Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-01•41mins

How To Have The Most Transformative Year of Your Life

How we feeling friends?! On this episode, I break down 22 ways we can all have a transformative year that can create lasting change. If you’re ready to pivot out of old patterns and step into alignment, I think you'll like this one!Inspired by Brianna Wiest’s The Pivot Year, this episode is a guide to self-reflection, acceptance, and growth. Change isn't something to fear—it's something to own. Let's make this your most transformative year yet. We're in it together!Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-05-01•41mins

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Food for Thought (Literally): How Nutrition Impacts Anxiety

Can what you eat really help ease your mind? In this episode, I dig into the science behind how certain foods and beverages can affect your mental health — especially when it comes to anxiety. I’ll walk you through 9 research-backed foods that have been shown to ease anxious feelings, shout-out the Mediterranean diet (for good reason!), and even unpack why a traditional Indian diet can be so nourishing when prepared the right way. Healing spices like turmeric are amazing for your gut (and your gut is more connected to your brain than you might think).This episode is based on trusted sources, including a Healthline article written by registered dietitian Brianna Elliott and medically reviewed by Jerlyn Jones, MS, MPA, RDN, LD, CLT, as well as research adapted from a Harvard Health Blog post by Eva Selhub, MD.If you're curious about how your nutrition and mental health go hand in hand, this one's for you! Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-04-24•39mins

Food for Thought (Literally): How Nutrition Impacts Anxiety

Can what you eat really help ease your mind? In this episode, I dig into the science behind how certain foods and beverages can affect your mental health — especially when it comes to anxiety. I’ll walk you through 9 research-backed foods that have been shown to ease anxious feelings, shout-out the Mediterranean diet (for good reason!), and even unpack why a traditional Indian diet can be so nourishing when prepared the right way. Healing spices like turmeric are amazing for your gut (and your gut is more connected to your brain than you might think).This episode is based on trusted sources, including a Healthline article written by registered dietitian Brianna Elliott and medically reviewed by Jerlyn Jones, MS, MPA, RDN, LD, CLT, as well as research adapted from a Harvard Health Blog post by Eva Selhub, MD.If you're curious about how your nutrition and mental health go hand in hand, this one's for you! Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-04-24•39mins

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Let's Have Some Life Chats

After four years of podcasting, it felt like the right time for a reintroduction. In this episode, I’m sharing a little bit more about my background, how I came to terms with my queerness and the intentions I'm carrying into this next chapter. Think of this as a cozy chat over coffee. Always remember to slow down and be present xo Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-04-17•32mins

Let's Have Some Life Chats

After four years of podcasting, it felt like the right time for a reintroduction. In this episode, I’m sharing a little bit more about my background, how I came to terms with my queerness and the intentions I'm carrying into this next chapter. Think of this as a cozy chat over coffee. Always remember to slow down and be present xo Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-04-17•32mins

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Love Bombing, Breadcrumbing, and How to Protect Yourself

Ah love bombing and breadcrumbing - two common terms we hear a LOT but what does it really mean? Is this something you've experienced in your romantic relationships or even friendships? I did some research for this episode and talk about the toxic tactics of love bombing and breadcrumbing which are two forms of emotional manipulation that can leave us feeling confused. I talk about how these behaviours show up in relationships, why they're so harmful, and how to protect yourself from falling into these patterns.If you're looking for a little extra guidance, you can learn more in Dr. Ramani Durvasula's book "It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People." Dr. Ramani Durvasula is an American clinical psychologist, retired professor of psychology, media expert, and author.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-04-03•34mins

Love Bombing, Breadcrumbing, and How to Protect Yourself

Ah love bombing and breadcrumbing - two common terms we hear a LOT but what does it really mean? Is this something you've experienced in your romantic relationships or even friendships? I did some research for this episode and talk about the toxic tactics of love bombing and breadcrumbing which are two forms of emotional manipulation that can leave us feeling confused. I talk about how these behaviours show up in relationships, why they're so harmful, and how to protect yourself from falling into these patterns.If you're looking for a little extra guidance, you can learn more in Dr. Ramani Durvasula's book "It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People." Dr. Ramani Durvasula is an American clinical psychologist, retired professor of psychology, media expert, and author.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-04-03•34mins

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Queer Storytelling with Caitlin Galway, Author of A Song for Wildcats

In this episode, I sit down with Caitlin Galway, the brilliant queer, non-binary author of A Song for Wildcats. We dive into the inspiration behind their short stories, the power of queer storytelling, and what it means to write characters that challenge conventions. From themes of rebellion to the beauty of various settings, Caitlin shares their journey as a writer and the stories that shaped them. If you love queer literature - this one is for you! Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-03-20•46mins

Queer Storytelling with Caitlin Galway, Author of A Song for Wildcats

In this episode, I sit down with Caitlin Galway, the brilliant queer, non-binary author of A Song for Wildcats. We dive into the inspiration behind their short stories, the power of queer storytelling, and what it means to write characters that challenge conventions. From themes of rebellion to the beauty of various settings, Caitlin shares their journey as a writer and the stories that shaped them. If you love queer literature - this one is for you! Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-03-20•46mins

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Anxiety...We Need To Talk

You ever have a totally normal day, and then out of nowhere, your brain hits you with the worst possible scenario? Same. My anxiety loves to serve up intrusive thoughts, especially when it comes to my loved ones and my cats. What if something bad happens? It’s exhausting, but I know I’m not alone. In this episode, I’m unpacking how anxiety shows up as fear and exploring ways we can combat it. Do you relate? Let's chat PLS. Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-03-13•28mins

Anxiety...We Need To Talk

You ever have a totally normal day, and then out of nowhere, your brain hits you with the worst possible scenario? Same. My anxiety loves to serve up intrusive thoughts, especially when it comes to my loved ones and my cats. What if something bad happens? It’s exhausting, but I know I’m not alone. In this episode, I’m unpacking how anxiety shows up as fear and exploring ways we can combat it. Do you relate? Let's chat PLS. Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-03-13•28mins

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It's Britney, Bitch: More Than a Pop Icon

My personality trait is loving Britney Spears- IYKYK. This episode is all about the incredible journey of the Princess of Pop. From her early life in Kentwood, Louisiana to her rise to superstardom, and most importantly, her inspiring journey to reclaim her life after a 13-year conservatorship. I hope this episode fills you with a little extra strength, fearlessness, and motivation - just like Britney herself.Enjoy! xAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-03-06•39mins

It's Britney, Bitch: More Than a Pop Icon

My personality trait is loving Britney Spears- IYKYK. This episode is all about the incredible journey of the Princess of Pop. From her early life in Kentwood, Louisiana to her rise to superstardom, and most importantly, her inspiring journey to reclaim her life after a 13-year conservatorship. I hope this episode fills you with a little extra strength, fearlessness, and motivation - just like Britney herself.Enjoy! xAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-03-06•39mins

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Sex, Desire & The Truth About Compatibility with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A.

Hi Girl on Girlies! This week, we’re diving into the psychology of desire with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A. - intimacy experts, authors, and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. We’re talking about what really shapes our turn-ons, how to navigate sexual incompatibility, and why embracing our desires (without shame) leads to deeper, more fulfilling connections. Get ready for a raw, insightful convo that’ll have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about sex & attraction. Keep up with Danielle and Celeste below: Instagram: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-27•58mins

Sex, Desire & The Truth About Compatibility with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A.

Hi Girl on Girlies! This week, we’re diving into the psychology of desire with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A. - intimacy experts, authors, and co-founders of the Somatica® Institute. We’re talking about what really shapes our turn-ons, how to navigate sexual incompatibility, and why embracing our desires (without shame) leads to deeper, more fulfilling connections. Get ready for a raw, insightful convo that’ll have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about sex & attraction. Keep up with Danielle and Celeste below: Instagram: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-27•58mins

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Let Them Be: Learning to Let Go

Trying to control how others see us is exhausting - especially in tight-knit queer communities, where it can feel like everyone knows everyone. In this episode, I dive into what happens when we finally let go - of control, of expectations, and of the need to manage how people perceive us. From social media unfollows to the bigger lessons in releasing control, this is all about finding peace in letting things (and people) be.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-21•38mins

Let Them Be: Learning to Let Go

Trying to control how others see us is exhausting - especially in tight-knit queer communities, where it can feel like everyone knows everyone. In this episode, I dive into what happens when we finally let go - of control, of expectations, and of the need to manage how people perceive us. From social media unfollows to the bigger lessons in releasing control, this is all about finding peace in letting things (and people) be.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-21•38mins

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Mother Monster: The Legacy of Lady Gaga

Let's talk about the queen herself: MOTHER MONSTER. That's right - I am dedicating an entire episode to one of my favourite artists, Lady Gaga. From her dance hits to Oscar-worthy ballads, Lady Gaga has cemented herself as a once-in-a-generation icon. But beyond the fame and the fashion, she’s also been a beacon for the queer community, a champion for survivors, and a trailblazer in pop culture. In this episode, I dive into Gaga’s legacy. Her impact on music, activism, and the LGBTQ+ community. Put your paws up little monsters, this one's for you.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-13•31mins

Mother Monster: The Legacy of Lady Gaga

Let's talk about the queen herself: MOTHER MONSTER. That's right - I am dedicating an entire episode to one of my favourite artists, Lady Gaga. From her dance hits to Oscar-worthy ballads, Lady Gaga has cemented herself as a once-in-a-generation icon. But beyond the fame and the fashion, she’s also been a beacon for the queer community, a champion for survivors, and a trailblazer in pop culture. In this episode, I dive into Gaga’s legacy. Her impact on music, activism, and the LGBTQ+ community. Put your paws up little monsters, this one's for you.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-13•31mins

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What's Your Enneagram? Let's Talk Personality

Ever wondered how your personality type plays a role in your romantic relationships? In this episode, let's dive into the world of Enneagrams and explore the dynamics of all nine types. From understanding your partner’s motivations to navigating differences, I break down how each type interacts in love, with a special focus on how my partner and I connect through our top Enneagram types.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-06•38mins

What's Your Enneagram? Let's Talk Personality

Ever wondered how your personality type plays a role in your romantic relationships? In this episode, let's dive into the world of Enneagrams and explore the dynamics of all nine types. From understanding your partner’s motivations to navigating differences, I break down how each type interacts in love, with a special focus on how my partner and I connect through our top Enneagram types.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-02-06•38mins

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Stonewall: A Rebellion, A Resistance, A Revolution

Before there was Pride, there was Stonewall. In this mini episode, we're diving into LGBTQ+ history and exploring the significance of the 1969 Stonewall Uprising. I discuss how this pivotal moment ignited the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement and highlight two key figures who were instrumental in the fight for equality: Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia RiveraAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-30•11mins

Stonewall: A Rebellion, A Resistance, A Revolution

Before there was Pride, there was Stonewall. In this mini episode, we're diving into LGBTQ+ history and exploring the significance of the 1969 Stonewall Uprising. I discuss how this pivotal moment ignited the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement and highlight two key figures who were instrumental in the fight for equality: Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia RiveraAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-30•11mins

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Honouring Marsha P. Johnson: A Legacy of LGBTQ+ Activism

In light of recent harmful comments denying the existence of gender diversity, I want to take this moment to celebrate the truth: gender is expansive, beautiful, and diverse. Trans and non-binary people have always been here, contributing so much to history, culture, and our communities. Let’s continue to honour and uplift these truths and stand together against narratives that seek to erase them.This is a mini episode paying tribute to LGBTQ+ icon and trailblazer, Marsha P. Johnson. To the queer community: I see you, I hear you, I love you, and I am you. Don't let anyone silence you.Trigger Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including sexual assault and talks of suicide, which may be distressing to some listeners. Please take care while listening.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-23•9mins

Honouring Marsha P. Johnson: A Legacy of LGBTQ+ Activism

In light of recent harmful comments denying the existence of gender diversity, I want to take this moment to celebrate the truth: gender is expansive, beautiful, and diverse. Trans and non-binary people have always been here, contributing so much to history, culture, and our communities. Let’s continue to honour and uplift these truths and stand together against narratives that seek to erase them.This is a mini episode paying tribute to LGBTQ+ icon and trailblazer, Marsha P. Johnson. To the queer community: I see you, I hear you, I love you, and I am you. Don't let anyone silence you.Trigger Warning: This episode discusses sensitive topics, including sexual assault and talks of suicide, which may be distressing to some listeners. Please take care while listening.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-23•9mins

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Signs I Was Gay + Listener Stories

Signs I was Gay: Featuring some heartwarming listener stories. Plus, I share a sweet story about my elementary school crush (let's call her Ash).Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-16•24mins

Signs I Was Gay + Listener Stories

Signs I was Gay: Featuring some heartwarming listener stories. Plus, I share a sweet story about my elementary school crush (let's call her Ash).Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-16•24mins

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2025 Resolutions: Prioritizing Uplifting Relationships, Mental Health & Adventure

Happy New Year! How are we already in 2025?This week, I’m sharing what I’m manifesting for the year ahead—from a friends cleanse to prioritizing mental health and planning more trips.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-02•0mins

2025 Resolutions: Prioritizing Uplifting Relationships, Mental Health & Adventure

Happy New Year! How are we already in 2025?This week, I’m sharing what I’m manifesting for the year ahead—from a friends cleanse to prioritizing mental health and planning more trips.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2025-01-02•0mins

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The Girlfriend Reveal: Meet Crystal

As promised, my partner Crystal has joined the Girl on Girl conversation. We decided to play a relationship card game during a trip to Whistler where we get silly, vulnerable, loving and more. Crystal talks about all the things - from realizing at a young age that she was most likely going to end up with a woman, to the moment she knew she had fallen in love with P.Enjoy and Happy Holidays! xxAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-12-26•44mins

The Girlfriend Reveal: Meet Crystal

As promised, my partner Crystal has joined the Girl on Girl conversation. We decided to play a relationship card game during a trip to Whistler where we get silly, vulnerable, loving and more. Crystal talks about all the things - from realizing at a young age that she was most likely going to end up with a woman, to the moment she knew she had fallen in love with P.Enjoy and Happy Holidays! xxAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-12-26•44mins

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Almost 30 (But Not Yet): Goals for My Last Year in My 20s

Hey pals! Here is a surprise bonus episode. I recently turned 29 and am reflecting on what I want to achieve before turning 30. On this episode, I share my excitement for turning 30 next year and the goals I’m setting to make this final year of my 20s extra special xxAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-12-14•23mins

Almost 30 (But Not Yet): Goals for My Last Year in My 20s

Hey pals! Here is a surprise bonus episode. I recently turned 29 and am reflecting on what I want to achieve before turning 30. On this episode, I share my excitement for turning 30 next year and the goals I’m setting to make this final year of my 20s extra special xxAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-12-14•23mins

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Queer Artists On My Playlist + A Conversation with Vanessa Heinitz

On today’s episode, I’m diving into queer artists and bands I’m loving right now, plus a very special conversation with Vanessa Heinitz—a queer artist based in Sydney, Australia. We chat about her single “I Wanna Know” and the story behind it—her realization of her attraction to women.PS: Vanessa's latest single Halfway In is out NOW! ✨Keep up with Vanessa: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-12-05•33mins

Queer Artists On My Playlist + A Conversation with Vanessa Heinitz

On today’s episode, I’m diving into queer artists and bands I’m loving right now, plus a very special conversation with Vanessa Heinitz—a queer artist based in Sydney, Australia. We chat about her single “I Wanna Know” and the story behind it—her realization of her attraction to women.PS: Vanessa's latest single Halfway In is out NOW! ✨Keep up with Vanessa: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-12-05•33mins

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Discussing Human Design with Cayla Meredith

I'M BACK! After taking the month off to settle into my new home, I'm ready to to dive deep into the world of human design with one of my dearest friends, Cayla Meredith. If you're interested in learning more about your Human Design chart and body graph, send Cayla a DM!Enjoy the episode xxFollow Cayla on social below! Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-10-09•1hr 8mins

Discussing Human Design with Cayla Meredith

I'M BACK! After taking the month off to settle into my new home, I'm ready to to dive deep into the world of human design with one of my dearest friends, Cayla Meredith. If you're interested in learning more about your Human Design chart and body graph, send Cayla a DM!Enjoy the episode xxFollow Cayla on social below! Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-10-09•1hr 8mins

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Why You Should Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

In this episode, I dive deep into why it's so important to get out of your comfort zone and why challenging yourself can help you GROW <3Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-08-22•20mins

Why You Should Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

In this episode, I dive deep into why it's so important to get out of your comfort zone and why challenging yourself can help you GROW <3Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-08-22•20mins

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Understanding Attachment Styles With LGBTQ+ Relationship Expert Dawna Noble

LGBTQ+ Relationship Expert, Dawna Noble is back on the pod! From anxious to avoidant, we talk all about the different attachment styles and what they mean in our romantic relationships.Dawna and her wife Ash have helped over 500 clients in their profession. They are launching a new course this October called 'Queer Love Essentials' - a step by step toolkit for queer couples that want to heal from insecure attachment and move into security together, but don’t know how to do it.They are taking pre-orders for the course at 50% off until Oct 1st, 2024.If you're interested in this course, DM them with the response “Queer Love” and you will receive the info!How to Work with Ash & Dawna: form.jotform.com/222435309535050Instagram: ashanddawnnobleAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-08-12•34mins

Understanding Attachment Styles With LGBTQ+ Relationship Expert Dawna Noble

LGBTQ+ Relationship Expert, Dawna Noble is back on the pod! From anxious to avoidant, we talk all about the different attachment styles and what they mean in our romantic relationships.Dawna and her wife Ash have helped over 500 clients in their profession. They are launching a new course this October called 'Queer Love Essentials' - a step by step toolkit for queer couples that want to heal from insecure attachment and move into security together, but don’t know how to do it.They are taking pre-orders for the course at 50% off until Oct 1st, 2024.If you're interested in this course, DM them with the response “Queer Love” and you will receive the info!How to Work with Ash & Dawna: form.jotform.com/222435309535050Instagram: ashanddawnnobleAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-08-12•34mins

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How I Manifested My Girlfriend

The power of manifestation is WILD. Find out how I manifested my girlfriend Crystal and how I was finally ready for a steady relationship.Find the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-08-05•29mins

How I Manifested My Girlfriend

The power of manifestation is WILD. Find out how I manifested my girlfriend Crystal and how I was finally ready for a steady relationship.Find the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-08-05•29mins

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Setting Boundaries as a People Pleaser

As a recovering people pleaser, I'm still learning! In this episode, I talk about how my childhood shaped some of my people pleasing tendencies and what I'm trying to do to unlearn these tendencies as an adult.Hope you enjoy xxFind the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-29•34mins

Setting Boundaries as a People Pleaser

As a recovering people pleaser, I'm still learning! In this episode, I talk about how my childhood shaped some of my people pleasing tendencies and what I'm trying to do to unlearn these tendencies as an adult.Hope you enjoy xxFind the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-29•34mins

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I love being a lesbian!

Get to know me a little bit better as I break down my coming out journey and the moments of loneliness I felt - especially in college.Find the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-22•33mins

I love being a lesbian!

Get to know me a little bit better as I break down my coming out journey and the moments of loneliness I felt - especially in college.Find the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-22•33mins

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Are You the Toxic Ex?

On this week's episode, I'm going to be diving into all things EX related. I'll break it down below:How to deal with a toxic ex when you have a new partnerWhy lurking your ex on social media is a form of self-sabotagingCan exes really stay friends?Are YOU the toxic ex?Thank you so much for listening and don't forget to leave a review if you enjoyed this episode xxFind the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-15•25mins

Are You the Toxic Ex?

On this week's episode, I'm going to be diving into all things EX related. I'll break it down below:How to deal with a toxic ex when you have a new partnerWhy lurking your ex on social media is a form of self-sabotagingCan exes really stay friends?Are YOU the toxic ex?Thank you so much for listening and don't forget to leave a review if you enjoyed this episode xxFind the podcast here:Instagram: social:P's Instagram: TikTok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-15•25mins

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The Honeymoon Stage is Over. Now What?

Hi Girl on Girlies! On this week's episode, I'm going to be talking about this common narrative we all hear: "I miss the early days of my relationship."Why is this so common? After having a conversation with my partner Crystal, I was inspired to bring up this topic on the pod and have an open discussion about what we can do to create something even more meaningful than the "honeymoon stage."Enjoy xxFind me here:Instagram: Tok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-08•30mins

The Honeymoon Stage is Over. Now What?

Hi Girl on Girlies! On this week's episode, I'm going to be talking about this common narrative we all hear: "I miss the early days of my relationship."Why is this so common? After having a conversation with my partner Crystal, I was inspired to bring up this topic on the pod and have an open discussion about what we can do to create something even more meaningful than the "honeymoon stage."Enjoy xxFind me here:Instagram: Tok: Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-07-08•30mins

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Girl on Girl is BACK! (with a twist)

GIRL ON GIRLIES! It has been 10 months since we posted an episode. Here's a little update...Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-06-29•29mins

Girl on Girl is BACK! (with a twist)

GIRL ON GIRLIES! It has been 10 months since we posted an episode. Here's a little update...Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2024-06-29•29mins

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Building Healthy Queer Relationships with Eden and Jay

Today we're joined by one of our favourite queer couples on the internet—Eden and Jay! With 560K+ followers across TikTok and Instagram, Eden and Jay have built a powerful and supportive community around nurturing healthy relationships and celebrating queer love. We ask them everything: from how to deal with conflict to the moment they knew they wanted to marry each other. Biggg gratitude to Eden and Jay for being so open and genuine. We hope y'all love this conversation as much as we did!Follow Eden and Jay on TikTok and Instagram.Listen to their podcast: EdenxJay Unfiltered.Subscribe to their YouTube channel (and check out their recent Mexico wedding recap! 💍)Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-09-25•1hr 25mins

Building Healthy Queer Relationships with Eden and Jay

Today we're joined by one of our favourite queer couples on the internet—Eden and Jay! With 560K+ followers across TikTok and Instagram, Eden and Jay have built a powerful and supportive community around nurturing healthy relationships and celebrating queer love. We ask them everything: from how to deal with conflict to the moment they knew they wanted to marry each other. Biggg gratitude to Eden and Jay for being so open and genuine. We hope y'all love this conversation as much as we did!Follow Eden and Jay on TikTok and Instagram.Listen to their podcast: EdenxJay Unfiltered.Subscribe to their YouTube channel (and check out their recent Mexico wedding recap! 💍)Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-09-25•1hr 25mins

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Tops, Bottoms, and Verses: A Complete Guide

Top, bottom, and vers—3 terms you hear all the time in the queer community. But what exactly do they mean? Can you be a mix of two or all three? Do you *need* to know which one you identify with? Do they only refer to sex or other parts of the relationship? And what can straight people learn from it all? On this episode, we dive into all these questions and learn a little about ourselves along the way.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-08-10•1hr 10mins

Tops, Bottoms, and Verses: A Complete Guide

Top, bottom, and vers—3 terms you hear all the time in the queer community. But what exactly do they mean? Can you be a mix of two or all three? Do you *need* to know which one you identify with? Do they only refer to sex or other parts of the relationship? And what can straight people learn from it all? On this episode, we dive into all these questions and learn a little about ourselves along the way.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-08-10•1hr 10mins

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Queer Love Around the World with Kirstie & Christine from On Airplane Mode

BRB planning our next trip. Kirstie and Christine, AKA On Airplane Mode, join us this week to talk all things queer travel and content creation. As a couple, these two travel full-time all over the world. Seriously—that's their job.Through beautiful and relatable content, they share their love story while helping other queer couples travel safely and find community in new destinations. We score all their best travel tips, plus their personal experiences with coming out, navigating family acceptance, finding each other, and growing a following online.We absolutely fell in love with these two and we know you will too. Planning a trip with your SO? Follow them + reach out to make sure you can be as safe as possible.Follow On Airplane Mode on Instagram and TikTok.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-07-19•1hr 19mins

Queer Love Around the World with Kirstie & Christine from On Airplane Mode

BRB planning our next trip. Kirstie and Christine, AKA On Airplane Mode, join us this week to talk all things queer travel and content creation. As a couple, these two travel full-time all over the world. Seriously—that's their job.Through beautiful and relatable content, they share their love story while helping other queer couples travel safely and find community in new destinations. We score all their best travel tips, plus their personal experiences with coming out, navigating family acceptance, finding each other, and growing a following online.We absolutely fell in love with these two and we know you will too. Planning a trip with your SO? Follow them + reach out to make sure you can be as safe as possible.Follow On Airplane Mode on Instagram and TikTok.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-07-19•1hr 19mins

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Not Giving a F*ck with Gay Italian Nonna

This week, Gay Italian Nonna (aka Monica) graces us with her IDGAF energy. And we could not be more grateful.As a daughter of Catholic Italian immigrants, coming out (or even *moving* out) felt like a huge act of rebellion for Monica. She tells us about navigating her years in the closet, finally coming into her own, and finding confidence in her sexuality and herself. Plus, how a fight with her neighbour turned into a TikTok following of 80K+.Follow Gay Italian Nonna on TikTok and IG for fashion, humour, queer advocacy, and thirst traps.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-07-07•1hr 18mins

Not Giving a F*ck with Gay Italian Nonna

This week, Gay Italian Nonna (aka Monica) graces us with her IDGAF energy. And we could not be more grateful.As a daughter of Catholic Italian immigrants, coming out (or even *moving* out) felt like a huge act of rebellion for Monica. She tells us about navigating her years in the closet, finally coming into her own, and finding confidence in her sexuality and herself. Plus, how a fight with her neighbour turned into a TikTok following of 80K+.Follow Gay Italian Nonna on TikTok and IG for fashion, humour, queer advocacy, and thirst traps.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-07-07•1hr 18mins

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Deep Chats with Tiff Der from Netflix's The Ultimatum: Queer Love

OK The Ultimatum: Queer Love fans—this one's for you. The incredibly smart and fun Tiff Der is here to answer ALL our burning questions, including the behind the scenes tea we didn't even know we needed.We ask Tiff all the things: Were they nervous Mildred would fall in love with someone else? How did they really feel about Sam? Which cast members had a secret connection that never made it to the final cut? And as one of the first all-queer reality seasons in Netflix's history, how did the producers handle everything?Tiff also gets candid with us about their experience with trauma, DV, and how they hope to help other queer people navigating the same issues. We could not be more grateful for Tiff's honesty and vulnerability. What a true gem—on and off screen.Whatever your feelings are about The Ultimatum: Queer Love, this season was a major step forward for queer representation in main stream media, especially reality TV. And we can't wait to see what's next.Follow Tiff on Instagram and TikTok.Find links to Tiff's podcast, DV survivor workshops, videos, and other offers here.Watch Tiff's Side of the Story: Post-Reunion Video Recap here.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-06-16•1hr 36mins

Deep Chats with Tiff Der from Netflix's The Ultimatum: Queer Love

OK The Ultimatum: Queer Love fans—this one's for you. The incredibly smart and fun Tiff Der is here to answer ALL our burning questions, including the behind the scenes tea we didn't even know we needed.We ask Tiff all the things: Were they nervous Mildred would fall in love with someone else? How did they really feel about Sam? Which cast members had a secret connection that never made it to the final cut? And as one of the first all-queer reality seasons in Netflix's history, how did the producers handle everything?Tiff also gets candid with us about their experience with trauma, DV, and how they hope to help other queer people navigating the same issues. We could not be more grateful for Tiff's honesty and vulnerability. What a true gem—on and off screen.Whatever your feelings are about The Ultimatum: Queer Love, this season was a major step forward for queer representation in main stream media, especially reality TV. And we can't wait to see what's next.Follow Tiff on Instagram and TikTok.Find links to Tiff's podcast, DV survivor workshops, videos, and other offers here.Watch Tiff's Side of the Story: Post-Reunion Video Recap here.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-06-16•1hr 36mins

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"Don't Tell My Parents": A Queer Poetry Reading with Alyy Patel

Alyy Patel is back! This time to grace us with a live poetry reading from their new book, "Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths". Alyy is a trailblazing LGBTQ+ scholar, activist, and creative and founder of the Queer South Asian Women's Network (QSAW). With the release of their first book of poems, you can add author to the list."Don't Tell My Parents" is an unflinchingly honest collection of poetry that follows the author's journey to self-love and self-acceptance as a queer South Asian daughter of Canadian immigrants who reject her sexuality. On this episode, Alyy reads a few of their favourite poems from the book, exploring the key themes of family rejection, lesbian relationships, emotional abuse, and discovering self-love.Get your copy of Alyy's book here.Follow Alyy on Instagram and TikTok.Learn more about Alyy's work here.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-05-29•34mins

"Don't Tell My Parents": A Queer Poetry Reading with Alyy Patel

Alyy Patel is back! This time to grace us with a live poetry reading from their new book, "Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths". Alyy is a trailblazing LGBTQ+ scholar, activist, and creative and founder of the Queer South Asian Women's Network (QSAW). With the release of their first book of poems, you can add author to the list."Don't Tell My Parents" is an unflinchingly honest collection of poetry that follows the author's journey to self-love and self-acceptance as a queer South Asian daughter of Canadian immigrants who reject her sexuality. On this episode, Alyy reads a few of their favourite poems from the book, exploring the key themes of family rejection, lesbian relationships, emotional abuse, and discovering self-love.Get your copy of Alyy's book here.Follow Alyy on Instagram and TikTok.Learn more about Alyy's work here.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-05-29•34mins

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Pers Has a Girlfriend!!! (and Sar is back)

We're kicking off a new season with SO. MANY. UPDATES! Sar is back from her trek through South Asia and Pers got herself a cat—and a girlfriend. Join us for this ultimate catch-up, where we explore P's first serious relationship with a woman, how they met, what she learned from her single life, and what she's looking forward to in the future. For anyone who has been listening to the show for a while, you know how big of a deal this is. Let's gossip, Girl on Girlies.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-05-15•56mins

Pers Has a Girlfriend!!! (and Sar is back)

We're kicking off a new season with SO. MANY. UPDATES! Sar is back from her trek through South Asia and Pers got herself a cat—and a girlfriend. Join us for this ultimate catch-up, where we explore P's first serious relationship with a woman, how they met, what she learned from her single life, and what she's looking forward to in the future. For anyone who has been listening to the show for a while, you know how big of a deal this is. Let's gossip, Girl on Girlies.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-05-15•56mins

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'Discovering My Pansexuality' featuring P's BFF

On today's episode, P sits down with her best friend of 21 years (WILD) Cailin Campbell to have the most vulnerable conversation. The two best friends talk about their childhood, growing up in a small town, and how they both navigated their sexuality as teens. Cailin openly identifies as pansexual and has been in a straight passing relationship with her boyfriend for nearly a decade. She dives into how she has struggled to fit in with the LGBTQIA+ community over the years since she got into a relationship at such a young age. However, Cailin has been able to grow and overcome those internal thoughts and is so grateful that she can be open with her partner about her pansexuality. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who identifies as queer but is in a happy and committed heterosexual relationship. Cailin says it many times throughout this episode but she wants everyone to know that your partner does not define your sexuality. If you want to send Cailin a message or keep up with her, you can follow this lil gemini babe below @cailincamps on Instagram. Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-03-30•1hr 22mins

'Discovering My Pansexuality' featuring P's BFF

On today's episode, P sits down with her best friend of 21 years (WILD) Cailin Campbell to have the most vulnerable conversation. The two best friends talk about their childhood, growing up in a small town, and how they both navigated their sexuality as teens. Cailin openly identifies as pansexual and has been in a straight passing relationship with her boyfriend for nearly a decade. She dives into how she has struggled to fit in with the LGBTQIA+ community over the years since she got into a relationship at such a young age. However, Cailin has been able to grow and overcome those internal thoughts and is so grateful that she can be open with her partner about her pansexuality. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who identifies as queer but is in a happy and committed heterosexual relationship. Cailin says it many times throughout this episode but she wants everyone to know that your partner does not define your sexuality. If you want to send Cailin a message or keep up with her, you can follow this lil gemini babe below @cailincamps on Instagram. Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-03-30•1hr 22mins

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A Heart-to-Heart Chat with Lauren "KITTENS" Abedini: Lesbian DJ, Producer, Podcast Host

YA'LL this episode is a special one. P talks to the one and only Lauren Abedini aka @iamkittens. KITTENS is a Persian lesbian DJ based out of Los Angeles. She sits down with P to talk about her experience coming out as a first-generation Iranian American, the first moment she realized she was into women, and how she kickstarted her career as a DJ in a male dominated industry. Her unique DJ sets and eclectic music taste had gained the interest of iconic artists like Kid Cudi, Usher, Skrillex, and A-Trak. Throughout her journey, she's had the opportunity to DJ at some of the world's largest stages like Coachella, EDC, and residencies in Vegas. Lastly, KITTENS talks about how important queer representation is in the media and how a queer playlist she started is what lead to the creation of SHE/HER/THEY, a podcast highlighting queer guests and their stories. Check out the links below to follow KITTENS and keep up with the latest podcast episodes for SHE/HER/THEY. InstagramTikTokTwitterWebsiteAlison Brie and Dave Franco ICYMIAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-03-06•55mins

A Heart-to-Heart Chat with Lauren "KITTENS" Abedini: Lesbian DJ, Producer, Podcast Host

YA'LL this episode is a special one. P talks to the one and only Lauren Abedini aka @iamkittens. KITTENS is a Persian lesbian DJ based out of Los Angeles. She sits down with P to talk about her experience coming out as a first-generation Iranian American, the first moment she realized she was into women, and how she kickstarted her career as a DJ in a male dominated industry. Her unique DJ sets and eclectic music taste had gained the interest of iconic artists like Kid Cudi, Usher, Skrillex, and A-Trak. Throughout her journey, she's had the opportunity to DJ at some of the world's largest stages like Coachella, EDC, and residencies in Vegas. Lastly, KITTENS talks about how important queer representation is in the media and how a queer playlist she started is what lead to the creation of SHE/HER/THEY, a podcast highlighting queer guests and their stories. Check out the links below to follow KITTENS and keep up with the latest podcast episodes for SHE/HER/THEY. InstagramTikTokTwitterWebsiteAlison Brie and Dave Franco ICYMIAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-03-06•55mins

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My Sister Didn't Know I Was Gay

Today, P brings on her sister and other half Marshneill to talk about allll the things. In this episode, you’ll get to hear M’s perspective on what it was like growing up in an Indian household while P was navigating her sexuality, their 8 year age gap and its impact on their relationship, how M had ZERO clue P was gay growing up and if she would have been able to pick up on more signs if there was more queer media representation, and her advice for new parents on how they can educate their children on the LGBTQ+ community.*Spoiler* M is a new parent to baby Celle and a wants to ensure he grows up in a very open and progressive environment. Also, this lil babe has the key to Italy but we will save that story for another pod episode.We really hope you enjoy this vulnerable conversation between M & P and have the chance to learn more about their relationship as sisters and their family dynamic.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-02-22•1hr 13mins

My Sister Didn't Know I Was Gay

Today, P brings on her sister and other half Marshneill to talk about allll the things. In this episode, you’ll get to hear M’s perspective on what it was like growing up in an Indian household while P was navigating her sexuality, their 8 year age gap and its impact on their relationship, how M had ZERO clue P was gay growing up and if she would have been able to pick up on more signs if there was more queer media representation, and her advice for new parents on how they can educate their children on the LGBTQ+ community.*Spoiler* M is a new parent to baby Celle and a wants to ensure he grows up in a very open and progressive environment. Also, this lil babe has the key to Italy but we will save that story for another pod episode.We really hope you enjoy this vulnerable conversation between M & P and have the chance to learn more about their relationship as sisters and their family dynamic.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-02-22•1hr 13mins

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Answering Listener Qs: Not Over My Ex, Teens & Queerness, Why LGBTQIA+ Representation Matters

While S is living it up in Thailand, P is riding solo to answer some listener Qs and maybe gush about Hello Fresh a lil (we promise this is not sponsored). In this episode, P gets real about not being fully over someone from her past and how she handles the unresolved feelings, how she felt growing up as a teenager with very minimal queer representation, what this generation of teens can do to find support, and why representation matters. Having LGBTQIA+ representation in books, tv shows, movies and any type of media you can consume is CRUCIAL. Let's never stop speaking out about this. Enjoy this candid episode!PS: Miss you S.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-02-07•25mins

Answering Listener Qs: Not Over My Ex, Teens & Queerness, Why LGBTQIA+ Representation Matters

While S is living it up in Thailand, P is riding solo to answer some listener Qs and maybe gush about Hello Fresh a lil (we promise this is not sponsored). In this episode, P gets real about not being fully over someone from her past and how she handles the unresolved feelings, how she felt growing up as a teenager with very minimal queer representation, what this generation of teens can do to find support, and why representation matters. Having LGBTQIA+ representation in books, tv shows, movies and any type of media you can consume is CRUCIAL. Let's never stop speaking out about this. Enjoy this candid episode!PS: Miss you S.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-02-07•25mins

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From Actor to Director: A Conversation with Queer Creator Alexa Rose Vitale

On this week’s episode, we had the most inspiring conversation with Alexa Rose Vitale. Alexa is a queer actor/director/total boss. She started her career as a model and actor in Punjabi music videos. Soon she was writing and directing her own work, including a queer TV pilot about two girls navigating their sexuality in Vancouver.Alexa tells us about the complex and frustrating process of shopping a pilot about queer characters—as a queer, feminine creator in a cis-male dominated industry. She navigated through so much pushback, ultimately reclaiming control of her work and standing up for her creative vision.We're SO grateful to Alexa for this eye-opening conversation. Keep up with Alexa HERE and check out her not-for-profit clothing line Rosebud Apparel. With a firm belief in equitable access to the arts, Rosebud's mission is to provide funds for youth in the arts across Canada. Don't forget to subscribe so you can find out when the first collection drops!Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-01-24•58mins

From Actor to Director: A Conversation with Queer Creator Alexa Rose Vitale

On this week’s episode, we had the most inspiring conversation with Alexa Rose Vitale. Alexa is a queer actor/director/total boss. She started her career as a model and actor in Punjabi music videos. Soon she was writing and directing her own work, including a queer TV pilot about two girls navigating their sexuality in Vancouver.Alexa tells us about the complex and frustrating process of shopping a pilot about queer characters—as a queer, feminine creator in a cis-male dominated industry. She navigated through so much pushback, ultimately reclaiming control of her work and standing up for her creative vision.We're SO grateful to Alexa for this eye-opening conversation. Keep up with Alexa HERE and check out her not-for-profit clothing line Rosebud Apparel. With a firm belief in equitable access to the arts, Rosebud's mission is to provide funds for youth in the arts across Canada. Don't forget to subscribe so you can find out when the first collection drops!Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2023-01-24•58mins

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How to Survive Cuffing Season

It's our last episode of 2022 and your girls are in their feels. Let's talk about cuffing season: what it is, the pressure you might feel during it, and how to find your cuff (if you're looking for one). Plus, our thoughts on 2022 and a special announcement that will cause a *slight* change to the format of the podcast. But don't worry—it's only until next summer. Happy holidays and an even happier new year to our amazing, beautiful, brilliant, passionate, soul-searching listeners. Here's to another year of conversation, allyship, and queer joy. Love, S & P.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-12-26•1hr 5mins

How to Survive Cuffing Season

It's our last episode of 2022 and your girls are in their feels. Let's talk about cuffing season: what it is, the pressure you might feel during it, and how to find your cuff (if you're looking for one). Plus, our thoughts on 2022 and a special announcement that will cause a *slight* change to the format of the podcast. But don't worry—it's only until next summer. Happy holidays and an even happier new year to our amazing, beautiful, brilliant, passionate, soul-searching listeners. Here's to another year of conversation, allyship, and queer joy. Love, S & P.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-12-26•1hr 5mins

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This Is What Asexual Looks Like with Yasmin Benoit

All your questions about asexuality: answered. We sat down with Yasmin Benoit, British model and award-winning ace activist, to talk about her experience identifying as asexual and aromantic. She tells us all about the very real challenges asexual people face and how starting UK's first asexual rights initiative is her way of creating change—in legislation and in how asexuality is perceived by the world. We absolutely loved this conversation with Yasmin and we're so grateful for her honesty and perspective.Follow Yasmin here.Find links to all her work here.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-12-12•53mins

This Is What Asexual Looks Like with Yasmin Benoit

All your questions about asexuality: answered. We sat down with Yasmin Benoit, British model and award-winning ace activist, to talk about her experience identifying as asexual and aromantic. She tells us all about the very real challenges asexual people face and how starting UK's first asexual rights initiative is her way of creating change—in legislation and in how asexuality is perceived by the world. We absolutely loved this conversation with Yasmin and we're so grateful for her honesty and perspective.Follow Yasmin here.Find links to all her work here.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-12-12•53mins

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Why We Need Queer Events with Jessica Figueroa from QueerGxrl

Queer events are crucial for the community—now more than ever. So what does it take to cultivate strong, supportive, and safe queer spaces? We asked Jessica Figueroa, aka Fig, from QueerGxrl.QueerGxrl is a premier events company for the next generation of queer womxn. Based in San Diego with plans to expand, QueerGxrl has amassed over 100K followers online and hosts regular parties for hundreds of people.We sat down with Fig to ask how they did it. From filling a major gap for queer women to building a community where everyone feels included, Fig explains why the work that QueerGxrl does is so important. She also shares her personal story, from being a closeted college athlete to becoming the face of a successful queer events company.Follow QueerGxrl on IG and TikTokFollow Jess FigRead QueerGxrl's feature in ForbesRead more about QueerGxrl on SDVoyagerAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-11-28•1hr 8mins

Why We Need Queer Events with Jessica Figueroa from QueerGxrl

Queer events are crucial for the community—now more than ever. So what does it take to cultivate strong, supportive, and safe queer spaces? We asked Jessica Figueroa, aka Fig, from QueerGxrl.QueerGxrl is a premier events company for the next generation of queer womxn. Based in San Diego with plans to expand, QueerGxrl has amassed over 100K followers online and hosts regular parties for hundreds of people.We sat down with Fig to ask how they did it. From filling a major gap for queer women to building a community where everyone feels included, Fig explains why the work that QueerGxrl does is so important. She also shares her personal story, from being a closeted college athlete to becoming the face of a successful queer events company.Follow QueerGxrl on IG and TikTokFollow Jess FigRead QueerGxrl's feature in ForbesRead more about QueerGxrl on SDVoyagerAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-11-28•1hr 8mins

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What Even IS Beauty? And Why Are We So Obsessed With It?

Beauty is a complex thing. It has a million definitions and means something different to everyone. But one thing's for sure: our society is obsessed with it. On this episode we explore why.What even IS beauty? Is it subjective or objective (or both)? Do stereotypically "attractive" people succeed more? Why does beauty take up so much mental space, especially for women? How can we put less emphasis on how we look, while still celebrating our own inherent beauty?While we can't definitively answer these Qs, talking about them feels vulnerable and cathartic. We hope you feel the same listening. And in case anyone hasn't told you today—you're really, really beautiful.Links from this episode:Forbes: The Role Beauty Plays in Success At WorkNew York Times: Why Is Beauty Important to Us?Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-11-14•1hr 30mins

What Even IS Beauty? And Why Are We So Obsessed With It?

Beauty is a complex thing. It has a million definitions and means something different to everyone. But one thing's for sure: our society is obsessed with it. On this episode we explore why.What even IS beauty? Is it subjective or objective (or both)? Do stereotypically "attractive" people succeed more? Why does beauty take up so much mental space, especially for women? How can we put less emphasis on how we look, while still celebrating our own inherent beauty?While we can't definitively answer these Qs, talking about them feels vulnerable and cathartic. We hope you feel the same listening. And in case anyone hasn't told you today—you're really, really beautiful.Links from this episode:Forbes: The Role Beauty Plays in Success At WorkNew York Times: Why Is Beauty Important to Us?Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-11-14•1hr 30mins

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I thought I was straight until I was 27: An Interview with Sar's BFF

On this VERY special episode, we sit down with one of Sarah's best friends to talk about her experience dating a woman for the first time at 27. Anne had always dated men until she met Katie, her now partner (and roomie). In this vulnerable convo, Anne explains her relationship with sexuality, how Katie completely surprised her, and how she feels about labelling herself. Then Katie joins in to tell us about meeting Anne for the first time, making her move (aka MOVES plural lol), and her experience as a gay woman being someone's first girlfriend.We truly can't thank Anne and Katie enough for having this conversation with us. This is a story about what happens when you stay open to love and follow your intuition. As Anne says in the episode: Love can never be wrong.Links from this episode's ICYMI:Keara Graves x Yasmin Benoit interview on asexualityGayTimes article by Monty BenningAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-10-31•1hr 31mins

I thought I was straight until I was 27: An Interview with Sar's BFF

On this VERY special episode, we sit down with one of Sarah's best friends to talk about her experience dating a woman for the first time at 27. Anne had always dated men until she met Katie, her now partner (and roomie). In this vulnerable convo, Anne explains her relationship with sexuality, how Katie completely surprised her, and how she feels about labelling herself. Then Katie joins in to tell us about meeting Anne for the first time, making her move (aka MOVES plural lol), and her experience as a gay woman being someone's first girlfriend.We truly can't thank Anne and Katie enough for having this conversation with us. This is a story about what happens when you stay open to love and follow your intuition. As Anne says in the episode: Love can never be wrong.Links from this episode's ICYMI:Keara Graves x Yasmin Benoit interview on asexualityGayTimes article by Monty BenningAdvertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-10-31•1hr 31mins

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Is TikTok's Lesbian Breakup Curse Real?

WTF is the lesbian breakup curse? How did it start? WHO allegedly started it? And why are lesbian breakups notoriously heart-wrenching? On this episode, P teaches S all about this new conspiracy. We explore why lesbian couples on social media have such a loyal, dedicated following. Plus, why the curse—although upsetting—is also relatable, realistic, and relevant.Link to The Cut article we reference, written by Emma Turetsky.Resources to support the women of Iran right now:How to Help Protesters in Iran (TIME Magazine)How to Help Iran Protests (including Iranian activists to follow for more resources)Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-10-17•53mins

Is TikTok's Lesbian Breakup Curse Real?

WTF is the lesbian breakup curse? How did it start? WHO allegedly started it? And why are lesbian breakups notoriously heart-wrenching? On this episode, P teaches S all about this new conspiracy. We explore why lesbian couples on social media have such a loyal, dedicated following. Plus, why the curse—although upsetting—is also relatable, realistic, and relevant.Link to The Cut article we reference, written by Emma Turetsky.Resources to support the women of Iran right now:How to Help Protesters in Iran (TIME Magazine)How to Help Iran Protests (including Iranian activists to follow for more resources)Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-10-17•53mins

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#49

SAR GOES SOLO: Top 4 Qs People Ask Me as a Straight Girl Co-Hosting a Gay Podcast

It's a Girl On Girl FIRST. While Pers is off on a well-deserved European adventure, Sarah takes the mic solo. Apologies in advance, friends. In this episode, she talks about the top 4 questions she gets as a straight girl co-hosting a gay podcast. What she's learned, what she's had to UNlearn, and the age old question: is she SURE she's not gay? Plus, her top tips for how to start your own podcast! Featuring an *INSANE* deal from our friends at CoHost: our un-freaking-believable podcast hosting platform. CoHost has everything your podcast needs in one spot, including analytics, SEO boosters, and one-click marketing tools. Guys—they aren't paying us a cent to say this. We just love them lol. And they've graciously agreed to offer all Girl On Girl listeners access to the entire CoHost platform for only $20/month for their first year! The regular price per month is $59 soooo...ya lol. Go to cohostpodcasting.com and use code GIRLONGIRL to set up your account and get started. Can't wait to listen to your podcasts someday soon. 🥰Psst. Pers will be back for our next episode. Promise. Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-10-04•32mins

SAR GOES SOLO: Top 4 Qs People Ask Me as a Straight Girl Co-Hosting a Gay Podcast

It's a Girl On Girl FIRST. While Pers is off on a well-deserved European adventure, Sarah takes the mic solo. Apologies in advance, friends. In this episode, she talks about the top 4 questions she gets as a straight girl co-hosting a gay podcast. What she's learned, what she's had to UNlearn, and the age old question: is she SURE she's not gay? Plus, her top tips for how to start your own podcast! Featuring an *INSANE* deal from our friends at CoHost: our un-freaking-believable podcast hosting platform. CoHost has everything your podcast needs in one spot, including analytics, SEO boosters, and one-click marketing tools. Guys—they aren't paying us a cent to say this. We just love them lol. And they've graciously agreed to offer all Girl On Girl listeners access to the entire CoHost platform for only $20/month for their first year! The regular price per month is $59 soooo...ya lol. Go to cohostpodcasting.com and use code GIRLONGIRL to set up your account and get started. Can't wait to listen to your podcasts someday soon. 🥰Psst. Pers will be back for our next episode. Promise. Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-10-04•32mins

#49

#50

Friends With Benefits: Is it Possible?

Friends with benefits: What are the pros and cons? Why can it be common in the queer community? What makes a successful FWB situation? And the real question — is it *actually* possible? We attempt to answer all of the above with the help of some insights from both queer and straight friends.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-09-20•1hr 24mins

Friends With Benefits: Is it Possible?

Friends with benefits: What are the pros and cons? Why can it be common in the queer community? What makes a successful FWB situation? And the real question — is it *actually* possible? We attempt to answer all of the above with the help of some insights from both queer and straight friends.Advertising Inquiries: & Opt-Out:

2022-09-20•1hr 24mins

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How To Have The Most Transformative Year of Your Life

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Food for Thought (Literally): How Nutrition Impacts Anxiety

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Let's Have Some Life Chats

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Love Bombing, Breadcrumbing, and How to Protect Yourself

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Let Them Be: Learning to Let Go

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Mother Monster: The Legacy of Lady Gaga

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What's Your Enneagram? Let's Talk Personality

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Stonewall: A Rebellion, A Resistance, A Revolution

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Honouring Marsha P. Johnson: A Legacy of LGBTQ+ Activism

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Signs I Was Gay + Listener Stories

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2025 Resolutions: Prioritizing Uplifting Relationships, Mental Health & Adventure

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The Girlfriend Reveal: Meet Crystal

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Almost 30 (But Not Yet): Goals for My Last Year in My 20s

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Queer Artists On My Playlist + A Conversation with Vanessa Heinitz

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Discussing Human Design with Cayla Meredith

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Why You Should Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

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How I Manifested My Girlfriend

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Setting Boundaries as a People Pleaser

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I love being a lesbian!

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Are You the Toxic Ex?

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The Honeymoon Stage is Over. Now What?

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Girl on Girl is BACK! (with a twist)

Girl on Girl is BACK! (with a twist)

Building Healthy Queer Relationships with Eden and Jay

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Tops, Bottoms, and Verses: A Complete Guide

Tops, Bottoms, and Verses: A Complete Guide

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Not Giving a F*ck with Gay Italian Nonna

Not Giving a F*ck with Gay Italian Nonna

Deep Chats with Tiff Der from Netflix's The Ultimatum: Queer Love

Deep Chats with Tiff Der from Netflix's The Ultimatum: Queer Love

"Don't Tell My Parents": A Queer Poetry Reading with Alyy Patel

"Don't Tell My Parents": A Queer Poetry Reading with Alyy Patel

Pers Has a Girlfriend!!! (and Sar is back)

Pers Has a Girlfriend!!! (and Sar is back)

'Discovering My Pansexuality' featuring P's BFF

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