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Best Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Episodes

ByEsther Perel Global Media
108 episodes

Every Monday morning step into the office of iconic psychotherapist Esther Perel and listen in as real people in search of insight bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories. From breakups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, it’s a place to hear our own stories reflected in the lives of others. So…where should we begin? Part of the Vox Media Podcast Network.

#1

Terms & Conditions May Apply: What We All Need to Know About Modern Dating

Dive into the complexities of modern dating with Esther as she engages with three individuals navigating the dating landscape. This episode explores the nuances of choice, rejection, and the emotional stakes involved, making it a relatable starting point for anyone interested in contemporary relationships.

2025-06-02•53m
#2

I Took My Boss to Therapy

This episode offers a fascinating look into workplace dynamics as Esther helps a tumultuous boss-employee relationship. The candid discussions about power, conflict, and communication resonate widely, making it an engaging listen for professionals in any field.

2025-05-19•1h 8m
#3

Esther Calling - I Waited for You to be Ready but Now I’m 40 and Childless

In this poignant session, Esther addresses the heartbreak of unmet expectations in love and family. The emotional depth of this episode speaks to anyone grappling with life's timelines and personal hopes, making it a compelling listen.

2025-05-12•52m

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#4

Esther Calling - I Leave First So You Can't Abandon Me

This episode uncovers the fears that drive people to sabotage their relationships. Esther's insights into emotional vulnerability and friendship dynamics provide valuable lessons for anyone seeking deeper connections.

2025-05-05•55m
#5

Ms. Entitlement and Mr. Sacrifice Out on a Date

As Esther navigates the complexities of an on-again, off-again couple's relationship, listeners gain insights into the challenges of reconciling differing priorities. This classic session highlights the importance of understanding perspectives in romantic settings.

2025-04-21•54m
#6

I Can't Love You the Way You Want Me To

This gripping episode addresses the cycle of blame and defensiveness in relationships, revealing how past traumas impact current dynamics. Esther's therapeutic approach offers hope and strategies for breaking these patterns.

2025-04-14•1h 6m
#7

Esther Calling - Do You Love Me for Me or For What I Do for You?

This episode tackles the theme of self-worth in relationships, as a Southern preacher questions her value beyond her nurturing role. Esther's guidance encourages introspection and fosters healthier romantic dynamics.

2025-04-07•48m
#8

You are Vocal on the Criticism But Silent on the Compliments

In this session, a couple at a tipping point learns the importance of reconnecting amidst family responsibilities. Esther's insights on communication and emotional connection make this episode essential for couples navigating similar challenges.

2025-03-24•1h 5m
#9

Esther Perel Invites Us to Imagine Our Preferred Future

During this live conversation, Esther explores the contrast between merely existing and truly living. Her reflections on imagination and hope are especially relevant in today's uncertain world, providing inspiration for listeners seeking a positive outlook.

2025-03-17•56m
#10

Leaving the Shame Behind

This classic episode delves into the aftermath of crises in a marriage, highlighting the resilience needed to overcome challenges. Esther's empathetic approach and practical advice offer comfort and understanding to anyone confronting similar situations.

2025-03-10•54m