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We Don't Have Time For This

ByGemma Peanut & Kate Reeves
444 episodes

Podcast Summary

Dive into the unapologetic world of "We Don't Have Time For This," a refreshing podcast hosted by childhood best friends Gemma Peanut and Kate Reeves. This dynamic duo fearlessly tackles the everyday chaos of life as working mums, serving up candid conversations that resonate with anyone feeling stretched too thin. From the importance of self-care to the humorous realities of motherhood, they explore everything from body positivity—prompting listeners to check in with their own bodies—to the inevitable trials of juggling careers and family. With a lineup of well-known guests sharing their own stories, listeners will find insights from relatable figures in entertainment and business who have faced similar struggles. Whether it’s a hilariously embarrassing caller or an uplifting curse, each episode is packed with authenticity and laughter. Tune in for a dose of real talk and empowering advice that reminds us all to prioritize what truly matters, even when time feels scarce.

#1

Sushi Trauma & Taco Drama

Boobs first, always. Go on, give ‘em a check. We’ll wait. Revz is back with a very uplifting curse update — but if you like sushi, maybe sit this one out (or at least put your chopsticks down). Yes, it’s that gross. Yes, we issued a trigger warning. And yes, we spiral into a very important chat: when exactly do you need a trigger warning for rank stuff? In other news, Revz has finally locked in her birthday plans and we can all breathe a sigh of relief. Then things take a dark turn: Gem comes out swinging against hard shell tacos, and we spiral into the biggest disagreement of 2025. Oh and while we’re in the kitchen, Gem wants to learn how to cook now so welcome to our new podcast, Domestic 101. : Gem: Miss Amara Rugs Revz: @onesydneymum Get your LIVE SHOW TICKETS! - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-06-02•1hr 10mins
#2

☎️ Bestie Hotline: Should I Apologise for My Kid's Swearing?

This week's caller is f*cking embarrassed. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-29•20mins
#3

A May (Trauma) Dump

We're kicking off with a good ol’ Revz Hack™️ (because who doesn't love a shortcut that makes parenting slightly easier?) But buckle up, DLs, because after that, things take a turn. A sharp one. Revz is feeling the heaviness of the internet right now — the trolls, the pressure, the performative noise — and she’s not sure she wants to keep showing up in a space that’s starting to feel more toxic than supportive. Is it the algorithm? Is it the curse? Is it just... collective burnout? We get into the deep feels — imposter syndrome, school bully flashbacks, and the general emotional whiplash of trying to be vulnerable online. Thanks for holding space, DLs. You are the reason we keep showing up. Revz: Kmart Pyjamas Gem: Witchery Stitch Detail Blazer - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-26•55mins
#4

2025 Live Show FAQs

Our 2025 Live Show "Who Is She?" goes on sale 10am Monday 2nd June. We answer all of your burning questions. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-25•14mins
#5

☎️ Bestie Hotline: Did My Nan Cheat?

This week's caller has found herself in a DNA dilemon. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-22•20mins
#6

My Relationship Is More Important Than My Kids

The Curse Continues. Revz’s car is plagued with fruit flies, we know what you’re thinking… what the actual f*ck? Just when you think it can’t get weirder, something not mail turns up in her letterbox and we’re one spooky coincidence away from staging a full moon cleansing. Someone call a reiki master? PLUS — we’re dropping the biggest news of 2025: WHO IS SHE? is coming to a stage near you. It’s giving wine-fuelled, belly-laughing, scream-crying Mum’s Night Out energy. Round up your ride-or-dies and stalk the socials for all the juicy deets. We asked, you answered — and now we’re taking out the parenting trash. From nappies to car seats, we’re deep-diving into the stuff you’re absolutely DONE with. Which, naturally, sends us spiralling into a debate about relationship priorities. Just your standard emotional rollercoaster — welcome aboard. Not Spon: Gem: Luxuriate Candles Revz: Pea Fritter Recipe Mentions: Ep 219: Average Mum, Amazing Aunty - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-19•46mins
#7

☎️ Bestie Hotline: How Do I Lift A Curse?

Today's caller is stuck in a bad luck ditch. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-15•11mins
#8

Is Cosmetic Surgery A Betrayal of All Women?

Serious question to kick things off: how do you order your coloured pencils? Because there is one correct way and the other 63 are chaos. Next up, 92% of you have major party anxiety and this is not helping Revz’s 40th plans. And speaking of turning 40… Gem’s having feelings about cosmetic surgery. Are we betraying body positivity by making augmentations or is it choice feminism? Is it internalised shame? Social judgement? Or is it just… wanting to feel good in your skin? We love a midlife spiral. Let’s unpack it. : Gem: Kollab X Rhythm Revz: Aunt Flo Hipster Period Undies Mentions: Ep 217 Hot 40th, Cold Feet - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-12•46mins

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#9

☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Husband Needs Toilet Training

Today's caller's husband pees on the toilet seat. Gross. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-08•18mins
#10

🛍️ Help Me Shop:  New Mum

We've got you covered this Mother's Day. Here are our top picks to gift the new Mum in your life. Links: Dinner Ladies Meals Soak Bathhouse Linen House The Palazzo Plush Robe LX Collection Candle Maya Brenner Initial Necklace See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-06•8mins
#11

Average Mum, Amazing Aunty

Busta’s at it again, busting Revz’s balls like it’s his full-time job. This time, he’s developed a new fear... and we’re all collectively wondering, can he not? In other news, Gem’s got a new side hustle. Yep, she’s now the unofficial queen of teaching kids how to ride bikes. Then, we’ve been getting your messages, your DMs, and your signals from the universe. How do we support our partners without losing ourselves in the process? Buckle up, it’s real talk time. Shout out to all of you grinding it out every single day. We see you, we hear you x : Gem: Pangolin: Kulu's Journey on Netflix Revz: Sasawashi Face Scrub Towel Mentions: Gem's fav Bike Tutorial Vid - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-05•1hr 3mins
#12

🛍️ Help Me Shop: Bestie

We've got you covered this Mother's Day. Here are our top picks to gift your bestie. Links: Inka Arthouse Jones and Co platters Crock’d Sculpt and Sip The Jojoba Company Ultimate Night CreamSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-04•10mins
#13

☎️ Bestie Hotline: When Do The Trenches End?

Today's caller wants to know if she should go for the 3rd baby? - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-05-01•15mins
#14

🛍️ Help Me Shop: Grandmums

We've got you covered this Mother's Day. Here are our top picks to gift your Mum. Links: Linen House Pyjamas Shorts Linen House Pyjamas Shirt COS Quilted Mini Bag in Silver Scent Australia Home Element Smart Diffuser Soak Bathhouse Al.ive Body Gift Pack Brie Leon Ritual Tote SmallSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-29•12mins
#15

We Can’t Have Nice Things

Look, the day started with a child spewing on the carpet and Gem's not exactly handling it like a zen goddess. Then—boom—one of Gem’s reels goes viral and suddenly the internet is a full-blown bin fire. Meanwhile, Revz's kids are handing out soul-crushing truths like it’s their job. We unpack the chaos, the cringe, and the comedy of it all. : Gem: Perky Pod Revz: Go- To Lip Hero - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-28•51mins
#16

🛍️ Help Me Shop: Mother's Day

Don't forget about you! We've got your back this Mother's Day. - Links: Vivienne Westwood: Catwalk Coffee Table Book Country Road Vase Luv Lous in Cherry Crystal Zahar Daisy Earrings in Gold Talulah Terra Bag Kate and Kole Heart Drawn NecklaceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-27•18mins
#17

☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Kid Is Constantly Lying

Today's caller's kid cannot stop telling lies. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-24•18mins
#18

Hot 40th, Cold Feet?

Yo, do you get gunty? Cos we do, when in denim anyway. Don’t pretend you don’t. First up today, Gem is remembering a truly terrible work place incident that happened in the Neighbours green room and we’re cringing for her, even though it’s years and years later. Revz is getting cold feet over her 40th and the whole idea of having a party and Gem is not really helping so maybe you can DLs…. Rally the witches! And then, Gem remixed a catch-up and is here to be the activity correspondent! Yay hobbies! HOW GOOD! : Gem: Wallaby Nutty Bites Revz: July Suitcase - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-21•50mins
#19

☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Kid Will Not Stop Screaming

This week’s caller has a screamer. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin: Join our Facebook Group: Watch Us On Youtube: omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-17•15mins
#20

Requested: Overhauling Your Health with Rachael Tagg

Today’s episode was by overwhelming demand. Our bestie and friend of the pod, Rachael Tagg has been on a mission to overhaul her health and wellbeing after a big health scare in 2024. As someone who prioritised everyone ahead of herself (mum life) didn’t take care of herself so much (hard relate), she has completely overhauled her lifestyle in the last year and has inspired us so much. So, the DLs asked to get her on, so get her on we did! Part 1 is here and part 2 dropping in More Time on Thursday! Mentions: Feather and Noise Noah Pants Atomic Habits by James Clear - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-14•46mins
#21

☎️ Bestie Hotline: Unsupervised Bully At The Playground

Today's caller has accidentally found herself the unofficial cop of the playground. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-10•11mins
#22

The Catch-Up Trap  

Recorded when Revz was sick (again) but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t have the delivery hacks we all need. Use at your own will, depending on your ethics. Gem has other applications for it too. Then, do you wear undies, like, all the time? To the gym? To bed? Cos looks like there’s two types of people. And if you had to train for a new profession, what would you actually want to do? Revz has some fantasies and Gem has some practicalities (story checks). Then Gem is frustrated with the monotony of routine and wants to really shake things up. But can that be done with girlfriends? Revz thinks we might be on different motherhood tracks here, and wonders if we can please not shirk the humble coffee catch-up, but Gem is calling all Dance Captains to get the get-togethers going. : Gem: Booie Make Up Revz: Natural Look Anti Lice Nit Spray - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — - Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-07•55mins
#23

☎️ Bestie Hotline: My Sister-In- Law Is A Scammer

This week’s caller needs to vent about her SIL’s dodgy behaviour. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-04-03•12mins

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#24

My Eclipse Season Was Worse Than Yours

First up, feel yourself up. Go on, it’s now mandatory and we’ll be reminding you regularly, ok? Gem has beef with the health of her hair growth - lol, and Revz has no time for the Brunette Blues. Speaking of Revz, she’s been going through it (we blame the moon) and our little Aries, Raffa, is also having a rough eclipse szn. However, Gem shocked herself by advocating for her kid at school and getting some brilliant results; recovering people pleasers unite! And poor Revz is on the bridge she said she’d cross when she came to it.. her dog is a teenager and it’s the mental load money pit we all saw coming but go on, hold space. Come on April, we need some good vibes. Gem: Bathroom Bin (Affiliate Link) Revz: An omlette (LOL) - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On Youtube See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-31•47mins
#25

☎️ Bestie Hotline: My In Laws Fear My Son's Nail Polish

Today’s callers’ son just wants to wear nail polish… What’s wrong with that? - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — Watch Us On Youtube Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook GroupSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-27•17mins
#26

The Way Men Flounder When Women Are Sick

Well, Revz is finally ready to talk us through whatever the frick happened to her toe. And strap in DLs, cos it’s quite the journey for one very debilitating injury. But first; we have BEEF with Harmony Day and of course we do, we’re school mums. But not for the reasons you may think. But while we’re here, what is Gem’s signature Thai dish, huh Gem? Then Revz gives us a blow by blow but it really does beg the question - when we go down, who steps up? Cos this may just be the ultimate men-are-from-mars-women-are-from-venus moment of the year. If you’re a man, this may not be an ep for you, if you’re not, but you live with one… we see you. Gem: Devil in the Family: The Fall of Ruby Franke on Disney+ Revz: Shark Stain Striker (affiliate link) - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-24•1hr 9mins
#27

☎️ Bestie Hotline: Should I Leave My Job?

Today's caller wants to blow up her work-life balance. - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Become a Subscriber on Apple Become a Subscriber on Spotify - Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-20•12mins
#28

Delulu or Defeatist and Nowhere In Between

First up, today Gem is staging an intervention on Revz and hello pot, it’s kettle back again! Hey girl! Revz is turning to her assistant for a major life overhaul, which reminds Gem of the time a whole week ago that she was the unfit friend (gasp) in an outdoor activity and the shame, you guys, oh the shame. Then Yai had embarked on a major project, that Gem asked for but now is frozen, unable to participate in. Should she woman up and dive on in or wait..? She’s feeling feelings. Some very applicable not spons and lots of overblown promises today, gals. Must be 2025! Gem: Remento Revz: Dirt - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — - Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join our Facebook Group Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-17•52mins
#29

☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Gives All He Has To the Kids

Today's caller is feeling a little lonely in her marriage. - Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS On Apple Subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS On Spotify Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin Join The Facebook Group: Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-14•13mins
#30

Making Friends At Your Vasectomy

Before we even begin, please know today is one of *those* episodes. Dunno if it’s the moon or what we had for breakfast but this ep is giving stream-of-consciousness-haven’t-seen-you-in-months vibes. First up, Revz had unwanted visitors and she’s so tired of being good at “hosting” because, let’s be honest, she’s no Meghan. Then if you HAD to train for the Olympics, like HAD to, what sport would you volunteer for? Seems a fun dinner table convo right? Little did we know Gem would take this so very seriously. Then, Gem brings a motion sickness life-hack to the table, before Revz shares a story of being recognised in the worst possible scenario. But also, congratulations to Revz on her contraceptive upgrade. Applause all round for that. Spon:Mokomo Phone Case Australian Idol on 7 / 7Plus-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — Up To Bestie BulletinJoin our Facebook GroupWatch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-10•49mins
#31

☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Is In Love With His Mistress

This week's caller has to decide what she will put up with.-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:AppleSpotify-Sign Up To Bestie Bulletin-Join our Facebook Group-Watch Us On YoutubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-06•13mins
#32

Do We Get A Sticker For Good Behaviour?

Well, Revz’s puppy is puppying. Don’t say we didn’t say we didn’t warn ya! And what does your dog say about you at the dog park? Revz has theories and Gem…is trying. Busta really is causing a devastating, we-can’t-have-nice-things mood that we’re not into, but we persist. Gem is going full tilt into her latest life hack / experiment / gamified mum-mode and it’s… working? Kinda? At least half way, which is fine, except it doesn’t help our resident perfectionist. Then, Revz quietly went through some stuff over the break and is coming out the other side; time for debrief with the DLs of course, and some signature insights from Bestie to boot. Until it all changes next week, anyway! Thanks for coming on the journey DLs, we know you get it. : Gem: Brightstar Kids Rewards ChartsRevz: Weiss Bars (wot?) Episode Mention: I Don't Wanna See A Ghost, It's The Sight That I Fear Most-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — Us on Youtube-Sign up to Bestie Bulletin-Join the Facebook GroupSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-03-03•59mins
#33

☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Religious Family Fit-Shame Me

Today’s caller is feeling shame over her outfit choices around her extended family.-WACF Mother's Day 2025 Early Bird Tickets-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-27•11mins
#34

A Single Grey Pube

What a week DLs, school’s back and the cruel passage of time ticks along at its ever galloping pace. Firstly, Gem’s Raffa is back to school and, well, it’s not going well so it’s broken hearts all around. Please gather round and welcome Gem to the kindy to year one transition, folks. It’s a shit club but we’re here as card carrying members to hold space. Then Revz has made a truly devastating personal discovery that has altered the very fabric of her being. So, you know, it’s been a really chill time. : Gem: L'Oreal Magic Retouch (Affiliate Link) Revz: All & Sundry 3 Steps Skincare - WACF Mother's Day 2025 Early Bird Tickets - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-24•54mins
#35

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Will Parenting Get Easier?

Today's caller is deep in the trenches. Nuff said.-WACF Mother's Day 2025 Early Bird Tickets-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-20•16mins
#36

Making New Friends When You’re a Mum

We were lucky enough to have lunch with six DLs from around the country on the weekend and it reminded us the power of connecting with women and mothers at this stage of life. Today we unpack how to make new friends when you’re deep in the trenches and why it might be so important. -If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — Mother's Day 2025 Early Bird TicketsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-18•13mins
#37

Mum Brain? Or Neuro Spicy?

Are we all across google image search? Cos, we need you to know about this major life upgrade DLs (for us and for you). Gem attempted to make waffles (WHO IS SHE?) and the pre-made mix and many calls to The Good Mum didn’t have the appropriate assumed knowledge. Now, get ready to count the nervous laughs, the shortness of breath and strap yourselves in DLs; it’s not a regular Tuesday. Today we are holding space for some news from our besties. You may relate, you may not, you may be surprised, you may nod along, you may have many questions and reactions but it’s time to sit down together and unpack some revelations. Links: Breville Barista Pro (Affiliate Link) Mia’s Episode D&M: Sister Lu (Apple) D&M: Sister Lu (Spotify) For more information on ADHD services and support within Australia visit: - WACF Mother's Day 2025 Early Bird Tickets - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-17•1hr 2mins
#38

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Does Anyone Care About My Kids' Allergy?

This week’s DL needs help on her kid navigating school with a food allergy.-WACF Mother's Day 2025 Early Bird Tickets-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-13•14mins
#39

The Thing About Kids Is They’re Unreasonable

First up, Gem is doling out the beauty advice and she’s not taking push back, even in the face of disagreement. Revz is coming to terms with the enormity of house maintenance and we’re not in an apartment any more, toto! Who knew leaf debris and council clean-ups would end up on our topic list; very annoying, very middle age. Then Gem doesn’t have time for her never-ending story, aka the saga of Iggy’s sleep. But turns out, she hasn’t told us the whole story. Strap in DLs, Gem has literally made her bed and now she needs to lie in it. Then Revz has a new therapist / personal assistant and it’s changing her life, but she may not be what she seems… Thanks for being here Besties, we love Tuesdays! : Gem: Kids Countdown Timer (Affiliate Link) Revz: Vito - If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long: Apple — Spotify — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-10•54mins
#40

☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Is A Screen Addict

Today’s caller needs to convince her husband to put. the. phone. down.-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-06•13mins
#41

I Identify As A Dad

You know what Gem doesn’t have time for? Raffa’s flippin *attitude*. Surely we’re not at teenage o’clock yet people. How is this happening? Revz is starting to “get” why people would be thinking about swinging (welcome to the chat Revz, Gem has been here a WHILE). Which reminds us about our get-together with Tara, the sexologist and her spicy stories for this postpartum period. Huge news, Revz has a hobby. No that’s not a typo. Revz is transitioning to a Dad. Yep, hobbies, free time, a zest for life, sounds like a Dad! Gem is still calling that free time, but we persist, DLs, we persist. Not Spon: Gem - Adventure globe (Affiliate Link) Revz - SunBum spray sunscreen See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-02-03•51mins
#42

☎️ Bestie Hotline : My Husband Won't Do Therapy

Today's caller wants to convince her husband to do couples therapy.-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-30•15mins
#43

Get Your Etymology Right Dickheads

Alright - when does a sock NOT need a wash? What’s the threshold, people? Revz had a security breach but it totally 2024’d and it turned out to not be that bad, whattayaknow? Revz doesn’t have time for goddamn motherf*cking cold sores. A life sentence that sometimes feels just too much, like come on life?! Speaking of life, Gem is obsessed with the phrases we’ve filed wrong in our brains and we have some absolute corkers for you today. Hold onto your bladder leakage, mamas, we’ve got some tight lols for you all today.-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-27•57mins
#44

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Don’t Call My 2 Year Old Pretty, Grandma!

Today’s caller is struggling with her parents enforcing gender stereotypes and beauty standards.-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-23•13mins
#45

How To Get Your Libido Back with Sex Coach Tara O

Post-partum libido lag is a thing. But did you know getting your groove back ain’t just for Stella? Tara is a seasoned tantric sex coach who helps post-partum women (and men) get back to feeeeeling themselves. Tara ran a tantric workshop for us and some girlfriends and she’s come in today to talk to us all about it and how everyone at home can get back *in touch* with themselves.Follow: @tarao_sexxcoach-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-20•56mins
#46

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Are Siblings Invited?

This week's caller wants to know is it rude to bring extra kids to someone's child's birthday party?-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-16•13mins
#47

Do Friendship Breakups Hurt The Most?

Gem is home from her holiday and looking golden but don’t worry, SPF was liberally applied! Tag you’re it, Revz is outta here soon but before she goes we wanna know…when exactly does the year start? Jan 1? When you go back to work? When school starts? When? Then Gem doesn’t have time to know when to go to hospital but she had an amazing GP appointment that gave her one of her favourite things — rules to live by! Then Revz is navigating the grief of friendship breakup and needs help with what is her responsibility and what to “let go let god” (enter Gem with a “let go let what?”) hope you’re having a lovely holiday break DLs, we’re happy to be here keeping you company into the new year.:Gem: Joseph Joseph Laundry HamperRevz: Soffle Lights-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-13•57mins
#48

☎️ Bestie Hotline : How Do I Talk to My Kids About Religion?

This week’s caller needs some tips on how to tackle her kids’ tricky questions.-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-09•13mins
#49

How To Be Mum-Goals with Yai

One of the biggest requests Gem gets asked in her DMs is “can Yai please tell us how to foster such a good relationship with our kids” so we thought instead of guessing (new for us! Look at the growth!) we’d get the woman herself in to talk family, daughters, grandparents politics, female friendship and second chance relationships.Listen to:D&M: The Mums. Part 2, Yai (Apple)D&M: The Mums. Part 2, Yai (Spotify)-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-06•40mins
#50

☎️ Bestie Hotline : Schoolyard Dickheads

Today’s caller needs some advice on how to support her kid being bullied at school.-If you want more of us in your week, you can subscribe to MORE TIME FOR THIS for more eps and giveaways all month long:Apple — — omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025-01-02•13mins

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